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Indymek · Dec 3, 2007, 03:18 PM

Hey, I have been blessed with a wife who gives the best oral... My trouble is I can't keep going after the "o". She wants to keep going but I can't physically take it. It'slike a full body tickling, heart racing, feels like I will have a heart attack if I don't make her stop... But I want to keep enjoying this... what can I do? Anyone else dealt with this?

akhilz · Dec 3, 2007, 10:16 PM

Originally Posted by Indymek

Hey, I have been blessed with a wife who gives the best oral....My trouble is I can't keep going after the "o". She wants to keep going but I can't physically take it. It'slike a full body tickling, heart racing, feels like I will have a heart attack if I don't make her stop....But I want to keep enjoying this...what can I do? Anyone else dealt with this?

Relax & Let Go :-)

kp2171 · Dec 3, 2007, 10:42 PM

Explain...

You're saying she takes you to orgasm and then she wants sex and you cannot because of how you feel?

Hate to say it, but if that's the case, the order is screwed up.

You should give HER oral first. Get her to orgasm or close. Then intercourse to see if you can get her over the top or get her "seconds"

Then, if she wants to do oral on you after she's had a fix, then fine. Also... men sometimes need a rebound period, even if they haven't hit orgasm yet.

When I'm focusing on my partner my mind isn't on what I'm feeling, especially if I'm giving oral. After she's satisfied, much of the time its better for me to stop, relax a minute, trace her body with my fingers and play a little, and then start up again...

I've a partner who is also fantastic at oral. I've told her so. But rather than have this be the "norm" for sex, id rather give her oral and play with intercourse. If that doesn't work for some reason, oral is always a great backup... or, as I've told her, oral is a great "surprise gift"... like you step out of the shower and she's waiting for you in the bathroom... or she stops you in the middle of the hall and she pulls your pants down...

Oral sex is completely selfless when the woman gives it. When a man gives it, its mixed. Most women prefer oral and have greater success at reaching orgasm with oral, but it also naturally stimulates the woman to receive the man better, and it's a win-win.

If she insists on giving you oral to orgasm, I think you need to insist on giving her attention first, even if that mean holding her back and letting her know you aren't going to be touched until she's taken care of.