[rainbows123]

I need help.
I like this guy and I don't think he likes me back.. it began in the summer.
We had a little thing then he liked another girl. And went out with another girl.
We started talking again.. and our 'thing' became official..
We hooked up a bunch of times.. then he started liking my close friend.
They hooked up behind my back and both pleaded for an aoplogie.
We put it behind us.. and we still had a 'thing'
He was so sure he was going to ask me out..
But it stopped.. I don't know how to get over him..
We haven't talked for weeks.
Just everything I do reminds me of him
Everything I say
Everything I look at.
I'm young and in need of advice.
Please.

[poseidon]

Hello Rainbow,

I am afraid that your story is like many, many others.

Although you feel empty and alone at the moment, I promise you that like everyone else you will heal and get over him.

Get out and about, especially with your friends and throw yourself into things which will take your mind off the past. Its not easy I know but try to make the effort.

From what you say this guy is not the most reliable person. He has already been seeing someone else behind your back and your own relationship with him has been off and on. If he cared that much about you, he would not have acted in the way he did.

Even if you did get back together, you may only be putting off the inevitable because if he has 'two-timed' you once, he is quite likely to do it again.

I am sure that you don't want to go through the hurt you are feeling now again, which could happen if you both get back together.

Although you may not think so, soon you will start feeling better and eventually your relationship with this guy will fade into memory.

Remember you deserve more than he is offering you and you will find someone who cares for and treats you the way they should.

Cy
(Poseidon)