[nick88]

Okay so now my problem is that my boyfriend realized that I did need space. We been going out for a year and half and I broke up with 9 days ago. I felt like he was too attached to me and I needed some space. Another reason I broke up with him is because I feel like we should see other people. He is my first serious boyfriend. I saw him twice since we broke up and he is trying to convince me to get back with him. He said that he was thinking about it and that he solved a solution that will make us both happy if we go back out. That he will give me space, him and my friends. 3 in one. Because he realized that I do need to be with my friends, now because since we broke up he been going outt and he loves it. I was trying to tell him that but he never listened. Anyway we were talking yesterday over the phone and he told me to take it or leave it. He said if I really wanted to be with him, then I would have said yes. That makes me think because I would have said it but I didn't. So that means that I don't really want to be him rite? But sometimes I feel like I do want to be with him, I miss and love him very much. But if I get back with him what if I get these feelings again like I should break up with him. I honestly want to meet other guys. Is this worth not getting back with him and might be losing him in the end, because maybe when I do realize that I really want to be with him, he might not come back? What should I do? I'm confused.

I also thought that if it was meant to be then it will find its way. Like say I leave it and don't get back with him now. And when I realize that I do want to get back with him, he has already moved on. But if he really loves me like he says and that its meant to be, then he would get back with me. Right?

Please help me.
Thank You

[stonewilder]

Sounds like you want to search for something better yet have him on the side lines waiting just in case you don't find anything better.

First lesson in love...
Real love is not selfish or greedy.