[crushedovernover]

Well here is a great piece of inFO. If anyone knows my story then here it goes, ex cheated on me in the end of July or mabe who knows how long. We broke up in the end of July, we have a 2 yr old son and I just found out that she is engaged to this guy who lives in Florida and she lives in ontario for now. A far as I know they have known each other since July, Aug,sept,oct,nov and there are freaking engaged.. . Im sorry but this just blows my mind. Talk about set back, I was trying to work threw all of my stuff and now this...

[Fr_Chuck]

And my current wife of 10 years, and I knew each other 3 months before we got married, and what is your problem?

[crushedovernover]

Oh wow... Because her and I have such a history...

[needofhelp]

What ever she is doing now, should not matter to you. Easy said than done right, but really, what does it change? You guys aren't together, so she can do whatever she wants. I don't want to sound crude, but my ex is seeing other people, and that kills me. If I spent everyday thinking about it, I wouldn't be sane enough to come on her. Yes it sucks, but I tell myself, does it change anything?

What she is doing, doesn't have any effect on the man that you are. It shows how weak she is. You're making strides, don't let this keep you down. Her actions, don't change the situation. Stay strong man. We're in this fight together... Keep you chin up.

[stonewilder]

Ok I'm not the least concerned about your ex's new man, who by the way she will probably cheat on him too, but what about your son? Is he with you or her? Will she be taking him to Fl after they are married? How is that going to work out as far as both of you seeing the child?

By the way I can see how her getting married so soon after would knock you for a loop. As if cheating on you wasn't a slap in the face enough...