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izkylee · Nov 20, 2007, 08:57 PM

Well, here's my story, I posted on here about 6 months ago.. I'm not that sure.
Because my ex left me and I was devastated,
Fast forward 7 months in time we've been dating again for about 5 months
I know I love this girl, at this young of an age (15) I think she's the one and I love her greatly, but the things we do together have become repetitive. I've been skeptical about the situation and I'm a big fan of communication in a relationship so I've been talking to her about it. We spend lots of time apart with friends school work making ourselves better individuals we see each other maybe once every 2 weeks which is such a bummer due to her lack of rides to several destinations, we're like limited to the movies and mall .
We run out of things to talk about on the phone, in person because we know each other so well now. I can fill in more details if needed but I'm not sure what to do to regain that excitement in our relationship again. Constructive advice would be greatly appreciated thanks in advance.

BiWiccanAndProud · Nov 26, 2007, 10:54 AM

Hmmm, do you know how to cook? You guys don't have to go someplace to mix things up and make it an exciting relationship again. One day at your house cook her dinner or something. Try to limit calling each other as much as you are, try talking just at night if anything else, that way you can discuss your whole day with each other, not tell each other all day and then at night be drawn a blank. And when you talk you don't have to talk about each other, think of other subjects... as nerdy as it may seem I'm a huge pokemon fan and so is my boyfriend. We will randomly start conversations about pokemon >.< for instance how all the legendary pokemon have some distentive thing on their head and I was trying to prove him wrong with Lugia.

See? Pokemon has nothing to do with us but we have friendly debates all over it, along with a lot of other things. We don't always talk about each other, or try talking about your family. Is there anything near the mall or the movies? If theirs a park near there or either of your houses just go for a walk!! I can garuntee that you will end up walking under the stars, hand in hand, one of you will make a comment over how nice it is outside and conversation will start. As I have said before... bringing back that interesting spark to a relationship is not that hard, just be creative ^.^. Find something you two have in common and go to something that relates to it, say you both really like to read or write, go to a library!! And unless you live a huge town like say... Kansas City or Chicago... walking places is not that hard ^.~ you have two legs and a heart beat... you don't need wheels to get places.

KillKylee · Nov 24, 2011, 03:08 AM

As nerdy as it may seem I'm a huge pokemon fan and so is my boyfriend. We will randomly start conversations about pokemon >.< for instance how all the legendary pokemon have some distentive thing on their head and I was trying to prove him wrong with Lugia.

Sorry to but in but lugia does however have two destinctive things over his eyes, if you wanted to win the argument you could have always just used Mew, it only has two ears which isn't pretty "destinctive" if you ask me.