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    eric1361 Posts: 69, Reputation: 3
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    Nov 19, 2007, 08:19 AM
    what kind of person
    what kind of person does this? When I say I love u she don't say it half the time because she don't have to, or text or answer her calls from me. We were together for 3 yrs. Its not because she's busy, its because she will when SHE wants too. She's NEVER wrong, or when you do prove her wrong then you're a %#$@&^*, doesn't matter if she did something bad to me she is NEVER sorry and I probably did something to deserve it. If I want to see her I go to her house or don't see her, puts me 4th,7th,10th on her list, depends on what mood she is in. if there's a problem or don't like something then you ask her, there is no talking about it, she will decide if its worth it. Even if her kids are dead wrong she will stick up for them over me, if I stick up for them then she will ground them because she was proven wrong. As long as I was kissing butt then we got along great, but I knew it was wrong and finally couldn't take any more. At the end she said we would get along better if I just said YES DEAR to everything she said, she said that's what a real man would do and that is what makes a relationship, not 50-50. I could do 9 out of 10 things, and no thank yous on the 9, but o my that one thing she would throw a fit forever. But she wouldn't do 1 out of 10. I could go on and on, but what kind of person is she? In her past relationships she was beaten, cheated on. I understand why. But I treated her like gold and she did me wrong, why?
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    Nov 19, 2007, 08:37 AM
    Get into counseling. That is my two cents for the day. You cannot keep beating yourself up over this woman. She did exactly what she wanted to do, when she wanted to do it, and to whom. Sadly, you were one of the targets. So please, please consider seeing a relationship counselor, possibly even a counselor who specializes in abusive relationships. You can survive and come out better but you need some help right now.
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    Dec 2, 2007, 08:07 PM
    I just got out of a relationship, like yours. I think now days some people just can't be pleased. My ex had passed relations as yours and I feel that really scars a women for a long time. At the same time you can't beat yourself up trying to please someone like that. It is un-healthy. Good luck

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