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nclogsdon09 · Nov 16, 2007, 03:09 PM

Ok so I am the guy that everyone treats as a friend but no one seems to "like." I mean I have many girl-friends which are platonic, but I haven't had many instances where a girl actually liked me, and I knew of it. Why do females have to hide their feelings? I consider myself not as ugly, but the most beautiful thing in the world either. I am smart, and semi-confident. I'm thinking that my downfall is that my muscle mass is very minute. And I'm not afraid to say this, I haven't had a girl friend ever and I'm 16. So can I please have advice. I really don't have a question, I just need advice over how to get girls to like me, or what girls like in guys

XenoSapien · Nov 16, 2007, 04:27 PM

"Getting" girls to like you is a mistake. Getting yourself to be who you want to be (your future, goals, being happy with who you are, etc.) will attract girls to you; and you likely won't see it coming.

Keep being a friend to those who appreciate your friendship. You never know when one of your friends may have a friend who finds you appealing and is interested in you.

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jlopez9988 · Nov 18, 2007, 12:18 PM

You know every guy has to understand that girls and shy and hide their feelings just as we do because of the fear of rejection and the fact that there will be akwardness in the friendship afterward. In my opinion, the best/fastest/easiest way to know if someone likes you is to go ahed and ask. It takes courage and thought to what you're going to say, so think about the best way to ask. Don't get embarrassed if the situation comes to the girl never liking you. All you have to do is forget the incident and continue to be friends. If they were a good friend in the first place then they won't stop talking to you at all. Just remember, if you never ask, someday when you're older you're going to wonder what would have happened if you asked. Also, your first girlfriend may not be the best. Good luck!