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    levanz Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 14, 2007, 04:23 PM
    Unexpected love
    I am a man going through a divorce ,which I am okay with. I have become very good friends with a lady in a similar situation. She has been dating a friend of mine, the 3 of us do a lot of things together but the other night I was with her waiting to go pick up the friend of mine that she's been dating one thing led to another and we started kissing, many more times than once but it went no further than that. Since then I have not been able to stop thinking about her. I really think I have deep feelings for her. I don't know what to do. Please help!
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    Nov 14, 2007, 04:51 PM
    I would stay away from her unless you want to lose your friend.
    If you try and pursue anything with her you could possibly lose both.
    If you keep showing an interest in each other and your friend finds out you could lose him and she might say she wasn't that interested in you in that way anyway and lose them both.
    Wait... if it is meant to be it will work out in time.
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    Nov 14, 2007, 05:51 PM
    Well first of all how good of a friend is this to you? And how serious are they?? If your going through a divorce now do you really want to start a relationaship that already has drama!!
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    Nov 14, 2007, 06:20 PM
    Without going into a lot of detail... you aren't even out of your marriage as yet and she is in the same boat. Don't you think that you might be just needy or on the rebound? I would stay away from this situation for some time to come... even if you feel you are ready, I would think again as you probably aren't.
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