[alisson]

Hello my name is alisson and I been trying to get pregnant for the past four year (I have two children ages 17 and 14 girls) by a previous relationship.

I am now in a new relationship for the nine years and my husband and I are trying so hard but nothing seems to be happening , it make me so sad he want to have a child so badly "he has no children" I did some test to make sure that everything is OK the test came back OK but nothing seem to be happening. Please tell what to do I will be turning forty soon.:( :( :( :(

[macksmom]

You "did some test"... was it at your doctors?

By now, your doctor should be stepping in... if they aren't I would consider seeking the adivce of a different OBGYN.

There are a number of things that need to be tested when you are having trouble getting pregnant (I just went through them) :) Your doctor should do some blood work to make sure your hormones are at the right levels to achieve pregnancy. Your husband should be tested. My doctor also did a test to make sure my fallopian tubes weren't blocked. All those tests on me and my husband came back fine. So my OBGYN started me on Clomid, it is a hormones that induces ovulation.

After 4 years of trying with no luck, I would definitely either go back to your own doctor and get them to assist, or get a new doctor.