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    MissBobSkeleton Posts: 25, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 5, 2007, 04:27 AM
    I don't know what I'm doing!
    Ok this is embarrassing but when me and my boyfriend have sex he likes me to be on top and I don't mind... thing is I have no idea what I'm doing,please help I feel stupid.:confused:
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    iAMfromHuntersBar Posts: 943, Reputation: 146
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    Nov 5, 2007, 04:30 AM
    Hey, if he likes you on top and he's asking you to do it... I wouldn't worry, he's obviously enjoying whatever you're doing!
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    kathy davids Posts: 22, Reputation: 3
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    Nov 5, 2007, 01:21 PM
    Obviously you are doing something right so don't panic. Also don't ever feel stupid and communicate with your boyfriend as this is the only way to learn and get reassurance. If your on top and he is lying down bend in towards him as if you were going to kiss him. When you are bent and your face is opposite his pull yourself off his so you feel it sliding out. When it is nearly completely out sit back down on it until it is completely back in.(repeat) The good thing about this is you can do it really slow until you get the hang of it and its very enjoyable for both.Good luck with this and I hope it helps.
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    Nov 5, 2007, 01:27 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by MissBobSkeleton
    Ok this is embarrassing but when me and my bf have sex he likes me to be on top and i dont mind....thing is i have no idea what i'm doing,please help i feel stupid.:confused:
    He probably loves the view :). Just "roll" with it. You will figure it out.
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    MissBobSkeleton Posts: 25, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 5, 2007, 02:07 PM
    Thanks so much for the help, I'll see how it goes next time hehe!
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    Nov 5, 2007, 06:12 PM

    Should you be having sex?

    Are you in High School?

    If so, take your time and focus on grades and school... you can practice in the future.
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    MissBobSkeleton Posts: 25, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 6, 2007, 05:15 AM
    No, I'm 18, just finished college.
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    Nov 6, 2007, 08:21 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by MissBobSkeleton
    No, i'm 18, just finished college.
    Try not to focus on what you don't know(at least what you feel like you don't know), focus on how it feels and go with it. I don't think you boyfriend minds at all, most guys dont(haha).:D
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