[mmar0602]

I feel like I have nobody there for me. I feel like my friends don't even want to hang out with me. It just seems like they hang out with me because I have a car. Or they just feel sorry for me. They never call me to talk they only call me if they want something. Sometime there not even there for me when I really need somebody there.I know there not true friends but those are there only friends I have and get. I lost something very special to me that meant everything to me he was always there for me. And always help me out. He was the only true thing I had. But he broke up with and now I feel like I have nobody.:( :confused:

[BMI]

That's normal kiddo!

Losing someone close really does suck and having people telling you you'll be better in time does not seem to help too much:(

HOWEVER, you are picking out the negatives from only one negative, you are hurt and so you believe that everything is wrong and that your friends only like you for a car,etc,etc. Once you start putiing things into perspective you'll see how strong you really are. Most times we go through tough times we always think we will not be able to handle it, but we find ourselves standing looking back and saying I don't know how I got through it, but you did.

"there is always a rose at the end of every thorn bush"

God's test kiddo, God's test:)

[lacuran8626]

It's hard, and it's easy to feel nobody cares. We've all been there. What works for me is to do something for someone else, and not worry about what they are doing for me. Expect nothing from others and a lot from yourself and you will find that your relationships will naturally improve without having to do another thing.

You don't have to be anyone's doormat, of course, but if you take an interest in the other person, you will learn more about them and become closer to them as your friends. As for the boyfriend - you sound really young and it's really hard, but is going to pass. If you are young, you have a lot ahead of you and your life is not in a place where you are ready to settle down with one guy, so this is what is supposed to happen. You learn through good and bad what you need in a relationship, both from yourself and the other person. Be patient, be your own best friend by thinking well and compassionately of yourself, and let people off the hook a little - they have worries and feelings of insecurity and lonliness, too. Show them how to be caring, fun and compassionate to be with by being that for them.

[Applejacks83irv]

Hey I don't know you but I'll be your friend!!