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    Oct 17, 2007, 08:11 PM
    Having family problems
    This is how it starts. My brother and I was sexually abused by our Dad. I am now 40 years old and my brother is 41 almost 42.I came out with the abuse when I was 14 and told my mother. She didn't believe me and life went on as normal. I told my Mother that it was done to my brother as well. But he would never tell it , until yesterday. My brother has been dignosed with schizophenia years ago and for the past 3 weeks he has changed in his behavoir. Dad called to tell me that my brother became very angry with him over the phone and told him he was going to blow his head off the next time he seen him and told him, well screamed it at him that you did to me the same thing you did to my sister. Our father has ask for forgiveness with me and we have worked threw this. I have had 5 years of therapy. But what I need help with is dealing with what is to come. My brother has had a gun in Dads face before and he went to a mental hospital. This happened 2 or 3 years ago. I am just afraid he is going to do this. I have tried to get my parents to change their locks cause he has a key to their house. I have also tried to get them to go to the police. I live 450 miles from them. Is there anything I can do from here ? I am worring myself to death over this.
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    Oct 17, 2007, 08:55 PM
    Have your parents get a restraining order against your brother and if they see him around, have them call the police immediately for breaking the order...

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