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    monkeychief Posts: 11, Reputation: 2
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    Oct 8, 2007, 09:53 AM
    Crazy just dump her!
    How can I tell my best friend that her girl is cheating on him? Keep in mind that I had feelings for her but that was long time ago, then my friend and her got together and I found out that she is cheating on him, if I tell him he will think that I am trying to brake them up, but if I don't tell him well it will be messed up
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    Oct 8, 2007, 10:01 AM
    Plain and simple... you don't! However... you COULD go to the gal and tell her than if she doesn't stop messing around on him that you WILL tell him.

    If you tell him he will probably believe her over you and you will lose a friendship. In all honesty, you don't know for a fact that she is cheating unless she cheated with you. Otherwise, you just heard it or think it.

    Be true to your friend by being there when the s$#t hits the fan.

    Hugs, Didi
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    Oct 17, 2007, 01:58 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by grammadidi
    Plain and simple... you don't! However.... you COULD go to the gal and tell her than if she doesn't stop messing around on him that you WILL tell him.

    If you tell him he will probably believe her over you and you will lose a friendship. In all honesty, you don't know for a fact that she is cheating unless she cheated with you. Otherwise, you just heard it or think it.

    Be true to your friend by being there when the s$#t hits the fan.

    Hugs, Didi

    I like that :D
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    Oct 17, 2007, 03:50 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by monkeychief
    How can i tell my best friend that her girl is cheating on him? keep in mind that i had feelings for her but that was long time ago, then my friend and her got together and i found out that she is cheating on him, if i tell him he will think that i am trying to brake them up, but if i dont tell him well it will be messed up
    Been there. I tried the opposite. I didn't tell him, and in my situ it was a mistake. I will say though, most people would say not to. I think you should. He may not talk to you for a while, but he'll come around when he finds out anyway. The risk is large though.
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    Oct 17, 2007, 07:39 PM
    If you know who the guy is she's is cheating on your friend will, tell your friend that she's cheating and say who it's with and maybe he could piece things together on his own. Maybe his girl and this guy have been spending time together and he just hasn't noticed yet. You never know. My best friend was cheating on her boyfriend (a guy who is like a bro to me) and I eventually told him and it turned out to be a good thing... so go for it. Hopefully things will turn out for the best.
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