Two of us

melinda08 · Oct 12, 2007, 10:16 AM

Ok Well Hi I Live In Ohio And I Am 17 I Kindof Got A Probblem Well See This Guy Named Billy I Love Him So Much But This Is What Happened I Liked Him For 3 Years And Then We Last Contact And He Was With A 14 Year Old When He Was 16 And He Got Her Pragnet And We Came Back In Contact In Sept And I Have Fallen In Love With Him And He Nows And He Calles And He Says He Loves Me And Stuff I Have Down A lot For Him Well We were Dateing And Well We Kindof Still Are Well He Is Dateing Both Me And Her Well The Pragnet Girl Is 15 Now And He Is 17 So I Don't No What To Do Someone Please Help Me I Rilly Love This Boy And He Loves Me And Her So Please Someone Help

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LeanneDucan · Oct 12, 2007, 10:40 AM

When a man has an affair there are two types of women involved. There is his GIRLFRIEND and then there's THE OTHER WOMAN. Generally THE OTHER WOMAN is the one that knows he is cheating while the girlfriend is kept in the dark! Which one are you?
Id also like to add that no matter how much you love a guy there is never any justification for sleeping with someone else's guy, whether the relationship he's in is a rocky one or not!

melinda08 · Oct 12, 2007, 08:14 PM

I am the other women

cerisa · Oct 12, 2007, 08:32 PM

You are only 17. Why get involved with a Mama Drama, Baby Daddy mess? He cannot be the best boyfriend material in Ohio. Whether he stands up to his responsibilities or not he is obligated to support this baby longer than he has been living himself. Surely you could step aside and let this very young family sort themselves out without your input.
He doesn't seem the commitment type anyway.

melinda08 · Oct 12, 2007, 08:54 PM

He Don't Won't Me To I Tried And He Loves Me Andi Love Him I Can't Stand This But I Love Him And When The Baby Comes I Will Love The Baby To He Don't Won't To Be With Her He Tells Me This All The Time

cerisa · Oct 12, 2007, 09:33 PM

It is not your baby to love, Melinda. You are looking at things through rose colored glasses, and setting yourself up to be hurt. Give the both of you some time. He has obligations which he shouldn't be avoiding.
That girl needs his support now. Wouldn't you want the same? If at some later date he is really available. Supports his baby, and can take care of himself, then see if you two have a future.

dollface_93 · Oct 12, 2007, 10:38 PM

Originally Posted by cerisa

I is not your baby to love, Melinda. You are looking at things through rose colored glasses, and setting yourself up to be hurt. Give the both of you some time. He has obligations which he shouldn't be avoiding.
That girl needs his support now. Wouldn't you want the same? If at some later date he is really available. Supports his baby, and can take care of himself, then see if you two have a future.

I totally agree!! I was in the same situation, except I was the one pregnant and he was dating another girl that sounds a lot like you, wanted to make everyone think I was letting her come to my appointments, and like she was going to be some part of my sons life?? Wrong, I gave him the ultimatum to get rid of her or not be around his son, and of course he picked his son. I am sure this guy will come to the same road block and can almost guarantee, you WILL LOSE! So if I were you I would pick up your life and move on!! It is better for EVERYONE involved!! :D

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