Originally Posted by
DMcCumber
He says he loves me but is not in love with me
To take this to heart your husband has made a very realistic statement. Any chance he has no plans to drop away from the marriage? If not then you might be jumping the gun. Has your husband explained what he meant when he said I love you but I'm not in love with you? A non biased view of this statement could suggest that he realizes your relationship has grown over the years, he loves you very much and at the same time recognizes the initial emotions you both felt years ago are no longer making your skin crawl. Once this is recognized we can enjoy those memories and continue loving each other or if we're very foolish and want a reproduction of the chest pounding, eyeball poping, what color boxer shorts should I wear, 2:00 AM pizza, 3:00 AM showers and looking like you just got off the inner galactic space station every Monday morning then go for it Rex but remember you might not love her in 16 months or better yet she may want to reproduce it in a week with a guy at the pizza place.
Be strong and best wishes