[Aliyu]

Hello everyone, I always feel under rated while passing through a crowd lazz n' lads.
What do I do?
Some times I rather change my way if possible than to keep passing by and receiving a oowls of big eyes looking at me and making me act low.

[cerisa]

Hello everyone, I always feel under rated while passing through a crowd lazz n' lads.
what do I do?
some times I rather change my way if possible than to keep passing by and recieving a oowls of big eyes looking at me and making me act low.

Aliyu, are you very young? Some of that self consciousness wears off as you get older.
Hold your head up, smile. If you act confident it will be easier to gain confidence.
Once I tested this in a big party with local media celebrities, big smile, Hi to everyone!
To my (private) amazement they responded as if we were all great friends!

[Aliyu]

Yes, cerisa. I'm just 19 years. Thanks for your answer, I have tried that and see changes in all I normally encounter that problem.
Thank You once again.
I'll be glad to receive such a very good Idea from you again.

[cerisa]

Aliyu,I am happy that helped you. We all have felt insecure sometimes. Confidence grows when you walk through a crowd and act as if you are totally comfortable. You will start to feel that way. Others will see you that way, and someday you will not be acting.
Good Luck