[MommaGonnaBe]

Hi everyone... I'm new to this website, but after reading some questions and comments, I feel that the people in this community are pretty competent... well my situation is like this: I am 25 and it wasn't until June 2006 when I had a miscarriage, that my cycle had a tendency of doing whatever it wanted to do. December 26, 2006 was the last time I had a cycle until is came February 10, 2007. From then on, my regular 35 day cycle turned into 45days, 55 days, and so on. My last cycle was May 15-19, 2007. Around June 23-26 (around the time it was supposed to come on).. my cycle started & the only protection I needed was a few squares of toilet paper... (normally I have spotting the first day, heavy the next 2 days.. then tapers off the last 2 days).. this particular "cycle" was extremely light and very pink! That was the last time I had a cycle... now I'm a whopping 126 days late! I've taken several hpts which read negative and one blood test that read negative. I've experienced all of the pregnancy symptoms such as nausea, fainting/ dizzy spells, minor breast tenderness/fullness, excessive urination, extreme fatigue and weight gain around my mid-section. I'm moody and young children tend to cling to me... and I also just look and feel pregnant!. I've heard stories of women who've had negative blood tests and in turn ended up being pregnant! I'm scared to go to the doctor because I don't want her to think that I'm a hypochondriac or so desperately want to become pregnant that I'm just making all of this stuff up for fun... that's why I miscarried the last time because no one believed that I was pregnant until it was too late... the only way this mystery can be solved is if I get an ultrasound... I would love to become a mother... but I don't want to get my hopes up if I'm not pregnant.. I'm just starting to move on from my miscarriage and I can't bear the fact of being at that lowest point again in my life if it proves that I'm not pregnant this time... someone please help!

[J_9]

I have to admit first off that I did not read your whole post. I read that you are 126 days late and that you are afraid to go to the doctor for fear of looking like a hypochondriac.

GIRL WHAT ARE YOU THINKING!!

Get over to that phone right now and make a doctor's appointment. You could be pregnant, you could have an infection, there are a ton of reasons this is happening to you, but only a doctor can properly diagnose you.

If you are pregnant you may have some serious problems with the fetus, or yourself, since you have not had proper prenatal care.

PHONE THAT DOCTOR NOW!!