How old is too old?

Miss lovley · Sep 15, 2007, 07:34 PM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Of course he doesn't care. You meet this 28 year old guy ONLINE, he knows you are a minor and doesn't care. This guy is a creep. I wonder how long he'll hang around when he figures out he's not getting any.
Or maybe he will hang around because he can't deal with women his own age.
I know you're tired of the negative, but you asked the question and this guy is a creep.
I'll bet he won't be taking you home introducing his 17 year old friend to his family. This is wrong on a whole lot of levels.
You won't like this, but I think if you had gotten positive attention from your father, we would not be having this conversation. In fact I bet if your father knew about this guy, he would hit the ceiling. I know if you were my daughter, I and my husband would be paying Mr. Wonderful a visit a long with the police.

1.He knows he is not getting any and he is still here.
2.I strongly doubt he is only hanging around because he can't get with women his own age.
3.I'm sure if he still lived in New York with his family He would introduce me.
4.ONCE AGAIN MY FATHER HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME LIKING A 28yr old. AND NEVER WILL HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH MY LIFE
5.You could call the cops but what could they do? Nothing unless they had sex. And we didn't

GlindaofOz · Sep 15, 2007, 07:36 PM

But you guys haven't even met.

Lovely you don't know who this guy is at all. The internet allows people to hide, pretend to be someone other then who they are.

Miss lovley · Sep 15, 2007, 07:38 PM

Originally Posted by GlindaofOz

But you guys haven't even met.

Lovely you don't know who this guy is at all. The internet allows people to hide, pretend to be someone other then who they are.

Yes that is true glinda
But what if he is who he says he is?

cerulean · Sep 15, 2007, 07:40 PM

Originally Posted by GlindaofOz

But you guys haven't even met.

Lovely you don't know who this guy is at all. The internet allows people to hide, pretend to be someone other then who they are.

You are spot on with that one Glinda! Although yes ths is my real picture lol

cerulean · Sep 15, 2007, 07:41 PM

Originally Posted by Miss lovley

1.He knows he is not getting any and he is still here.
2.I strongly doubt he is only hanging around because he can't get with women his own age.
3.I'm sure if he still lived in New York with his family He would introduce me.
4.ONCE AGAIN MY FATHER HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME LIKING A 28yr old. AND NEVER WILL HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH MY LIFE
5.You could call the cops but what could they do? nothing unless they had sex. and we didn't

Whens your birthday?

GlindaofOz · Sep 15, 2007, 07:42 PM

But what if he isn't? Have you really thought about that? How you heard stories about girls who go across the country to meet someone they met online and the person is not at all who they thought they were. Sometimes the person turns out to be a psychopath and kidnaps the girls, kills her or rapes her.

Its easy for him to say that he would never pressure you or that he respects you when he has not been around you. Right now you have no way to see if his words match his actions or if he is who he really says he is.

I would especially be cautious if he is hesitant to come to meet you face to face that is a HUGE flag that he is not who he says he is (under no circumstances should you go out to see him and if he comes to see you do not go alone, please, please listen to that if nothing else).

ScottGem · Sep 15, 2007, 07:43 PM

Oh geeze, this is all about someone she's never actually met? And she believes all the garbage this guy must be feeding her? I'll bet he's really a pimply faced 15 yr old who is laughing at her.

Miss lovley · Sep 15, 2007, 07:47 PM

Originally Posted by GlindaofOz

But what if he isn't? Have you really thought about that? How you heard stories about girls who go across the country to meet someone they met online and the person is not at all who they thought they were. Sometimes the person turns out to be a psychopath and kidnaps the girls, kills her or rapes her.

Its easy for him to say that he would never pressure you or that he respects you when he has not been around you. Right now you have no way to see if his words match his actions or if he is who he really says he is.

I would especially be cautious if he is hesitant to come to meet you face to face that is a HUGE flag that he is not who he says he is (under no circumstances should you go out to see him and if he comes to see you do not go alone, please, please listen to that if nothing else).

Oh yes of course I would never go and see him and if he did happen to come her and see me then I would meet him in a busy place with a bunch of "friends"

Miss lovley · Sep 15, 2007, 07:48 PM

Originally Posted by ScottGem

Oh geeze, this is all about someone she's never actually met? And she beleives all the garbage this guy must be feeding her? I'll bet he's really a pimply faced 15 yr old who is laughing at her.

Yea you wish that's why I have pictures of him

Miss lovley · Sep 15, 2007, 07:48 PM

Originally Posted by cerulean

Whens your birthday?

May why?

GlindaofOz · Sep 15, 2007, 07:48 PM

How long has this online relationship been going on? Has their been talk of meeting?

GlindaofOz · Sep 15, 2007, 07:49 PM

Originally Posted by Miss lovley

yea you wish thats why i have pictures of him

They could be pictures of anyone. You have to keep in mind that just because you are being honest does not mean he is. He could have sent pictures of a friend, a cousin, anyone.

Homegirl 50 · Sep 15, 2007, 07:52 PM

Originally Posted by Miss lovley

yes that is true glinda
But what if he is who he says he is?

And what if he's not. You had better be real careful young lady. You don't know what you're dealing with. For all you know he could be a rapist.

Homegirl 50 · Sep 15, 2007, 07:59 PM

This guy could be anybody. He could be 40 years old for all you know. Don't you read the papers or watch the news? You hear stories almost every day about men picking up young girls via the Internet, pretending to be somebody they are not. Then the next thing you know the girl meets this creep and is raped or worse.
You think you are grown and mature, buy you're not using your head.

Miss lovley · Sep 15, 2007, 08:03 PM

I'm done with this topic
I know all the safety precautions and what not
And I am sick of you people not trusting my judgement so I am unsubscribing to my own question

GlindaofOz · Sep 15, 2007, 08:05 PM

Why? Because we are all telling you all the possibilities in this situation?

You seem to think that there is no way this guy is lying. Honey it is HIGHLY likely.

Miss lovley · Sep 15, 2007, 08:10 PM

Did i say that i didn't know the possibility oh him being horrible? NO i didn't
Do you people think that i am not aware of these things
I am just sick of hearing about it over and over again
It is possible to meet a good person online
My moms friend did and she was happy until she met someone else

Homegirl 50 · Sep 15, 2007, 08:11 PM

Originally Posted by Miss lovley

i'm done with this topic
i know all the safety precautions and what not
and i am sick of you people not trusting my judgement so i am unsubscribing to my own question

You don't trust your own judgment, otherwise you would not have asked how old is too old. You can get angry and leave if you want, but you have read all of these words, so they are in your head. You've heard some good advice. I hope you revisit it before I's too late.
I wish you peace and safety

GlindaofOz · Sep 15, 2007, 08:11 PM

Well I guess you know everything and we collectively on this forum know nothing.

Good luck.

Miss lovley · Sep 15, 2007, 08:15 PM

Originally Posted by GlindaofOz

Well I guess you know everything and we collectively on this forum know nothing.

Good luck.

I didn't say that i appreacate all of the thoughts you all have shared with me i am just sick of people saying he could be this he could be that

And as of tonigth i am done talking to him because "HE'S A BAD BAD MAN"