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    Sep 14, 2007, 12:34 PM
    Problems with Orgasm
    I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We have had a great sex life since we've been together. Always. We both have children. He has a 8 yr old and I have a 7 and 9 yr olds. Just this past summer, (since May) we all have moved in together. It has been going great! We get along, the kids are great. There is a lot of structure in the home. But, when we get to the bedroom, it's a whole different ball game. I find him extremely attractive and I am completely in love with him. But, last night we had sex and I couldn't have an orgasm. The only time I do have an orgasm is when we both climax at the same time in the end. But during foreplay, I am as dry as a dessert! We haven't discussed it. He just knows that there are times when I will be really dry. But he also knows that I will have an orgasm during climax. My ? Is, why can't I have an orgasm anymore during foreplay? I use to all the time when we first got together. Help:confused: :( :eek:
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    Sep 14, 2007, 12:51 PM
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    Sep 14, 2007, 01:05 PM
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    Thank you for the sites I can go on. But what my problem is having an orgasm during foreplay. When we're having sex, it isn't a problem. Any suggestions there?
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    Sep 14, 2007, 01:22 PM
    :) Hope were on the same page now :)

    orgasm,cream - Google Search

    Female Orgasm Climax Enhancement

    Or is it that you have orgasm during foreplay?
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    Sep 14, 2007, 01:45 PM
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    I have orgasm during foreplay
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    Sep 15, 2007, 08:36 AM
    Some times the answer is simple -- sometimes you have to sleep on it

    I think we can rule out traditional doctors and sex therapists

    What I am saying sex is a mind thing which gives you pleasure

    I would look to acupuncture or hypnosis as possible solutions



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