[someguy222]

Oh, hahaha

I have a pretty sweet basement so we'd probably be there instead of the living room.

[talaniman]

I don't know if I would let my daughter anywhere near your sweet basement to tell the truth!If you can't sit in my living room like a gentleman then you need to go check out somebody else's daughter.Maybe a call to your mother or father will slow your roll a little bit,if not as a father I would deal with you on a more direct basis.Not to threaten but to protect you and my daughter. :p

[someguy222]

Well I wasn't thinking about that type of thing... but OK.

What I meant was that there's like a TV and pool table and stuff down there.

Get your mind out of the gutter lol :eek:

[talaniman]

Say what you mean and It won't get taken the wrong way.It would be a good idea for you to learn to deal with protective parents. Trust me, they will have the final say in anything to do with their own.Show respect you might get respect! :cool:

[someguy222]

Alrite well ill remember that.

I'm leaving to go to my friends house until tomorrow night so if you have ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING that you think would be helpful, important, smart, or anything at all that I should know, POST THEM.

[nymphetamine]

Yeah I got something smart to say. I she slaps you silly then you did something wrong. If not then you be just fine. Dude just think about it. Dude just use common sense on this okay? Its really not that hard.

[Chery]

one question, why the living room?

i talked to her yesterday but we didnt do anything together, because i went to my friends sleepover b-day party.

Because we were talking about doing homework together. We are not talking about jumping bones the first time she steps into the home, people need to get to know each other.. What happens in the other area of life in the future is not as important as this current issue, and should be tackled step by step.
Goals can be reached - but don't need to be rushed!

[talaniman]

From your last few post I have to ask are you ready for this young lady?It doesn't seem like it especially with the amount of advice you've been given it seem like you would have a lot more feedback and be forth coming with a whole lot more facts.Is it just me or do I smell a rat?? :confused: :eek: :cool:

[someguy222]

Because we were talking about doing homework together. We are not talking about jumping bones the first time she steps into the home, people need to get to know each other.. What happens in the other area of life in the future is not as important as this current issue, and should be tackled step by step.
Goals can be reached - but don't need to be rushed!

Yea I forgot about the homework part, I was thinking we were just going to be chillin.

[someguy222]

From your last few post I have to ask are you ready for this young lady?It doesn't seem like it especially with the amount of advice you've been given it seem like you would have a lot more feedback and be forth coming with a whole lot more facts.Is it just me or do I smell a rat ??? :confused: :eek: :cool:

What? Explain the last sentence at least...

[talaniman]

one question, why the living room?

i talked to her yesterday but we didnt do anything together, because i went to my friends sleepover b-day party.

It just seems to me that after 7 pages of good advice and encouragemet you would have told us more about how this relationsip is progresssing.You haven't told us how she has reacted to your advances or have you met her parent,or nothing to gage if our advice is helpful or not .kinda hard going blind like that you know. :cool:

[Chery]

im 15, and theres this girl who lives in my neighborhood and we r kinda friends and i really like her. im too nervous to ask her out, and i dont wanna get rejected because i dont know if she likes me or not. also, i dont know wat my friends will think of me if i go out with her (no shes not ugly, shes pretty hot). if ur goin to respond, dont just say, "just go ask her out" actually try to give me some advice to help me.

Just in case you forgot... you were worried about what friends would think; you don't know if she will like you or not; and wanted advice on how to get to know her... then you think about the basement with the poolroom, etc. Then, 'oh, by the way, going to spend the night at a friends', but if you have more to say, post it... hello! Good thing this is not a scratch and sniff monitor that I'm using here. Why don't you pass by a few ideas of your own on us and we'll let you know if your ideas are good or not, maybe that will get you off your lazy duff. As I said before, we can't hold your hand and get you there, you have to do a little more than what you've been doing, like maybe get out of the basement or away from you ever-so important friends. Hope you have not gotten a bet started with them as to how far you'll get with our advice, because unless you come up with something on your own, mine stops here.

Excuse me, but I have to do my nails now.

[someguy222]

I talked to her again and I asked her if she wanted to go see a movie Monday night (not as a date, just as friends) and she agreed. Anything else you would like to know about it?

[jeffatl]

Good job buddy!! You are on your way! Just play it cool and make her laugh for god's sake!!

[someguy222]

Wish me luck everybody!!

[someguy222]

Hey everyone it went smoothly we both had a good time and she said she wanted to do it again sometime. U think I got something here?

[nymphetamine]

I would say you do. Play on playa! Good luck to you. Glad things went good.

[someguy222]

When should I ask her to do it again? When would be too soon? (remember that wasn't a date it was just going to a movie as friends)

[nymphetamine]

Find out what days you are free and what days she is free then go from there.

[someguy222]

Well I already know that we are both free every Monday, I have bball on Tuesday and Wednesday and Thursday, plus a game on either Saturday or Sunday. Her swimming season is over so she's free most of the time.