[dealwithitandmoveon]

I am really sad.:( :( It's like everything I do comes bad and there is no reason to life for.I feel like crying all the time.What can I do to life a better life? I would appreciate if u help :)

[Maybaby100]

Just believe in yourself, absolutely no one is perfect. There are plenty things I do that comes out wrong. No matter how much a person may act as if they are perfect they really aren't. So just believe in yourself, gain some confidence, and more self esteem and you'll be fine and realize how precious life is.

[gallivant_fellow]

Not to be crude, but out of thousands and thousands of sperm and eggs, you were the one. You have vision, hearing, the ability to think thoughts, and the body of the most powerful and intelligent animal on the planet. You are an elite. Also, you change the world everyday whether you like it or not. Even when someone looks at you the world will change because seeing you will cause them to do something moderately different which in turn will cause a whole domino effect around the world. I know, WAY too deep:) , but I think it's cool to think about once in a while.

From a better perspective, you're just in a rough spot. Don't worry, you will grow because of it and you will probably never be in that same rough spot again(another one will happily fill in for it). Life has a lot of them. Just last week I had tears because my last friend moved away, I didn't know what I was going to college for, I had no girlfriend, etc. All I needed was my dog to die, then I could have written a country song, LOL! Like everybody, I got back into the groove after a while. I'm making new friends, working hard in school, I still have no girlfriend, but my dog is alive! You'll be fine.

[cerisa]

I see that you are sad and lonely. Have you considered volunteering? There are so many people in need, you have a chance to make a real difference in someone's life. THAT feels good.

[cpalmist]

Good job & Well Done! Being happy is much over-rated as our, and other societies, depend on sad people that are really good at it to perform at significant functions:

1) New Orleans (or what used to be NO) - - professional mourner, someone to carry on and be wildly sad, the more the better. The hours are good, usually daytime though you may or may not be invited to the wakes.
2) Coolers - like the film, someone to show up and take the energy down. You'll get gigs from ex-s, thrown-over and enemies of the happy couple to just show up and suck the life out of the occasion. The hours are good and you'll be invited to the reception so if you like cake, then these are good gigs.
3) Master Goth Instructors - Tweeners and teenagers looking for an identity until they can form one are usually drawn to Goth - your natural sadness will act like a huge magnet to them. The hours are good and if you play it right, you can have as many mini-cults of these wannabesads as you can handle. You may have to give some 'Get One for the Gipper' speeches to encourage them to be as sad as they want to be but if you lift their MP3 players and credit cards they'll be on the road to true sadness. Cut a deal with a tattoo house for a piece of the action as well...
4) Troll or Ogre - a traditional role for the sad but the hours are good as you make your own and you'll meet new and interesting people as you bluff and bluster them into paying a small fee to use your bridge. Oh, and you'll be expected to recite your bad poetry and made terrible riddles as part of the payment to use your bridge...
5) Professional corpse - you're break into show bidness! The hours are good and the work easy as you'll be an important part of any cinema or TV crime scene - your discipline will count heavily in your success as they outline your body with white tape. An overlooked benefit is that you get to keep the bloodied and shredded crime scene clothes and with the makeup tips you'll learn, you'll not only be ready for Halloween but your little Tween Gother's will worship you like gays around a fag hag.
6) Double Date Cock Blocker Wingman. Yup, you can either be your fine self and make your buddy look good in contrast and get him laid that way or you can be your fine self and cause the double date to end early, very very very early and free up your buddy to go off with his date while you take advantage of your date who has passed out from mind-numbing boredom - who sez being sad can't be fun??

So there you go, just a few of the exciting opportunities to cash in on the big time opportunities of a Sad Sad, Oh so, Sad person.

Be sure to write!