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jman18 · Sep 6, 2007, 08:34 PM

So I really like this girl I just met her and I have this feeling like I have never had before it is pertty much amazing... like I have been talking to her so much and every time I do everything around me seems so awesome... the thing is I don't know if she feels the same way I know she likes talking to me and she enjoys being around me but I am scared to ask how she feels I am terribly scared of rejection I have posted a couple of questions before saying I want a girlfriend and everything and now it seems like I found potenial and its amazing I feel so good but how should I go about asking her how she feels I don't want to mess things up

keep_fallin · Sep 6, 2007, 09:15 PM

Well I think your in love boy and good for you and you will never know if you don't ask so ask her cause if you don't den you will have that question in your heart all your life;)

br_hjs · Sep 6, 2007, 09:22 PM

And whatever you do. Don't have a friend ask her. Do it yourself. That way she won't think your afraid or anything. Be brave. You can do it. Ask her. Nothing too bad can happen. You may be afraid that she will say no but even if she does its not the end of the world and she may say yes..

br_hjs · Sep 6, 2007, 09:51 PM

Good. You should give it a chance. And once you do, you probably won't feel so bad. Let us know how it goes.

jman18 · Sep 6, 2007, 09:59 PM

Well I just asked her and she said she likes me and we are going on a date this weekend wow its feeeeelsss so good hahah I thank you guys so much

br_hjs · Sep 6, 2007, 10:03 PM

No problem. I hope every thing goes well with the 2 of you. Good luck.

jman18 · Sep 6, 2007, 10:04 PM

Thank you and I hope so too I hope I don't mess things up

br_hjs · Sep 6, 2007, 10:05 PM

Well, is there anything you want to know so that you don't? Any certain questions, to help you out? Like things to say? Or anything?

jman18 · Sep 6, 2007, 10:07 PM

Like I asked her if she even likes me and she was like obviously otherwise I wouldn't be talking to you and I was like so you want to do something Saturday and she was like yes id love to and like should I just take it easy and not do anything the first time and how should I talk to her wow I am such a nerd haha

br_hjs · Sep 6, 2007, 10:17 PM

Well me being a girl I can tell you, definitely don't talk about any other girls. You don't want to make her jellous. Let her know that you do care about her. But try not to get her to do too much with you at first. It may be best to leave that stuff up to her. Try to talk about things that you and her are both interested in. You don't want to say things like "i love you" too much. But you should let her know once in a while.( not like every 5 seconds. It can get annoying and pethetic). Because you are just starting to go out, try to take things slower. But not too slow. I would say for now Just hold hands and things like that. I wouldn't go too far with her yet.

jman18 · Sep 6, 2007, 10:20 PM

Well yea I kind of figured not to talk about other girls around her and knowing me ill be like way shy again around her ughhh its going to suck but yea I take things pretty slow anyhow so thanks and like should I put my arm around her in the movies or is that like to childish

br_hjs · Sep 6, 2007, 10:23 PM

I like when my boyfriend does that but he doesn't seem to want to. It depends on how you feel about it. If your kind of scared to then don't. But she would probably like it if you did. Me and my boyfriend went out for 2 months before we even held hands. Because we were both too shy. But try not to go that slow.

jman18 · Sep 6, 2007, 10:26 PM

Oh OK well thanks ill let you know how things went and how they are going

br_hjs · Sep 6, 2007, 10:28 PM

OK. And also, don't call her too much. Try to have it all equaled out to where you go to her just as much as she goes to you. You don't want to always be calling her and she never calls you or her always call you and you never call her and things like that

jman18 · Sep 11, 2007, 02:41 PM

Well so I left for the weekend to go to vegas and I was talking to her and the Monday I came back she told me she was dating this other guy or better she started dating him while I was gone so yea its over perttty much what happened but maybe it's a good thing and it happened for a good reason

br_hjs · Sep 11, 2007, 06:07 PM

O. I'm so sorry to hear that. Well, you don't want to be with a person like that anyway. She'll probably cheat on that guy or anyone she's with. I'm so sad that happened. I'm sure you will find someone a lot better than her one day though. Someone who doesn't want anything to do with other guys. I wish you the best of luck!

jman18 · Sep 11, 2007, 07:11 PM

Yea it sucks but whatever well I guess its just like that and everything happens for a good reason and maybe this special someone was just waiting for me haha wow how cheeeeesy

br_hjs · Sep 11, 2007, 07:22 PM

Well, would you rather have stayed with her and get cheated on or wait for someone who will only love you? I bet the second one sounds a lot better. And it may not be her but I'm sure you'll fall in love with some one else. Do you like any of her friends? Or anyone else other than her? I bet she really wouldn't like it if you asked out one of her best friends. Lol. But don't do that for revenge or anything.

jman18 · Sep 11, 2007, 07:30 PM

Yea true true haha
Well I kind of like this other girl but at the same time I kind of don't feel like liking anyone right now so yeaaaa but I seriously just want a girlfriend

br_hjs · Sep 11, 2007, 07:38 PM

Well, I hope you find someone good soon. Are you sad from it or do you kind of not care?