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    Becca74 Posts: 32, Reputation: 2
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    Sep 2, 2007, 11:15 AM
    I love him but I'm with someone else
    Im in love with another person... but I'm with another guy who isults me and he's always mad at me! He may possibly be cheating on be but I'm not sure so please don't judge him. But I love this other guy so much I would give my world to him... but if I leave, it will break his heart and I never want to do that.. but I don't love him anymore... and it will make everyhting worse for me but I want to be with the person I love...
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    Sep 2, 2007, 08:05 PM
    Listen girl, if the guy your with is not treating you right and insulting you, kick him out of your life cause you deserve better then that, even though it might break his heart, and if he begs and begs for you to take him back, and promises to change please don't take him back cause all he's going to do is hurt you again and do it a whole lot worse beleave me I was in the same situation as you are, and girl if you stay it's only going to lead to abuse, maybe not phiscally but meantly, and emontal. If he's insulting you like calling you a worthless peace of crap that's verbal abuse and that's all insults are and it will only get worse. Once you stopped loving him and you tried every thing in the world to get him back to the great guy you feel in love with but he won't change, and also if you think he's cheating he porbaly is, so it's time to leave him. You need a guy who will treat you equal and not put you down or make you mad or sad all the time. So dump him and go for the guy who will treat you right. Good luck
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    Sep 3, 2007, 10:06 PM
    I've been in this situation. Don't cheat on your boyfriend, that will just worsen the situation. Break up with your boyfriend before it turns to cheating. DON'T tell him you are in love with someone else. Tell him it is because he insults you, and is always mad at you, etc... And then do NOT call him or answer his calls/texts so that you are not tempted to get back together with him. BE WITH THE MAN YOU LOVE! We cannot control who we love, and if you're not married and the relationship you are currently in is not satisfying, then it might very well be worth it to leave an unhappy relationship to enter a loving one. It was worth it to me. The only regret I have was not breaking up with my boyfriend sooner, so I wouldn't have had to postpone being with the man I love now.

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