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    kylemcg Posts: 16, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 2, 2007, 07:07 PM
    My girlfriend has acted weird
    OK so I have been going out with this one girl and she was really nice and she was sitting on my lap and kissing etc. but all of a sudden she has been really sad and I have asked her friends and she is not like that around her friends. She has been fine the last week however but she hasn't wannted to kiss or anything so what should I do
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    Sep 2, 2007, 08:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by kylemcg
    ok so i have been going out with this one gurl and she was really nice and she was sitting on my lap and kissing etc. but all of a sudden she has been really sad and i have asked her friends and she is not like that around her friends. She has been fine the last week however but she hasn't wannted to kiss or anything so what should i do
    Well confront her about it although I am 15 and never had a boyfriend I know these things. But just ask her. Personally if a guy ever tries to kiss me by chance I will pull away possibly run is that wrong?
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    Sep 2, 2007, 08:04 PM
    It sounds like you need to back off and give her some space. When a girl starts to pull away like that it's usually because things are getting too hot and heavy too fast for her. Don't call her for a while and spend your time with other people. Then see how things pan out. Make her have to be the one to chase you. Then if she's still interested you won't experience as much of her pulling away.
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    Sep 2, 2007, 08:53 PM
    So I have read about 5 posts in this forum that were composed by you.Seem like you have A LOT of questions on this girl, her gfs,the other "bad" guy she likes...
    U do have put way too much thought on this relationship. Let it happen naturally, and right now back off a little bit. She seems like a nice girl, but nice girl needs time to discover what she really wants too. You sound like a nice boy too, be yourself and don't let people hurt you.:)
    I don't know how the ending goes, but people who put too much thought and expect too much out of it usually end up getting hurt a lot.
    My advice: Youth should be light hearted about love.
    You need to find a balance on school, friends, and girls.
    Good luck.
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    Sep 3, 2007, 01:49 PM
    Give her some time, but not too much. Also, she may just be moody from PMS or something because I know that when I am I tend to pull away from my boyfriend even though I love him with all my heart. It makes girls feel insecure so try to make her feel secure about herself. Compliments do wonders, but only if you mean them.
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