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    kayla_tyler13 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 31, 2007, 06:59 PM
    Does he really love me?
    OK my boyfriend says he loves me but I don't know how to believe him...
    He said (while we were dating)that he still cared and had flings for his ex girlfriend...
    But he also tells me that I'm better then her and that I'm beautiful and he looks into my eyes when he says it,and he holds my hand in front of everyone and he'll kiss me in front of his friends... he says the sweetest things... hes cute.. hes a gentil man,he's nice to others,he's protective,he will stand up for what's right,he doesn't do drugs,he don't this people... hes just the perfect guy any girl would dream about... I feel more convertible around him and I feel like I've known him my whole life... sometimes we fight over the stupidest things but we make it through it every time... iv been with him for a little more then 9 months,I was the first girl he kissed and he was the first guy I kissed... I love him so much.. and he says he loves me with all his heart... but I don't know if its true love or if he really does loves me...

    I need help...
    Someone help me... :( confused: :confused: :confused: :o :o :o
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    Aug 31, 2007, 07:32 PM
    I haven't met him so there is no way to tell if he really loves you.
    I see you need to learn to trust your partner.
    Have faith in yourself and the other person. Belief influences outcomes in relationships.
    Don't forget that learning to trust is just as important as building trust.
    Be calm and stop asking him the same question : Do you really love me?
    U don't need to ask over and over again, you must learn to feel it yourself.
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    Aug 31, 2007, 07:51 PM
    I'm afraid only time will tell, if you two are really in love with each other. For now don't be so insecure and just enjoy learning each other. Just take it slow one day at a time.
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    Aug 31, 2007, 09:16 PM
    Dating does not restrict his activities or give you exclusive rights. Be happy he is open and comfortable enough to talk with you about past relationships. It sounds as if you are a very young couple learning and growing. You'll have to live the experience yourself and I bet you'll do great.
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    Sep 2, 2007, 09:22 AM
    OK... well that helps... lol thanks people
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    Sep 2, 2007, 10:08 AM
    Don't have an answer for you now, only time will tell. Time is the true test.
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    Sep 2, 2007, 06:03 PM
    It sounds like he does really love you. If you love him and trust him then don't let him go. He sounds like he is a great guy and if he does love you he will not hurt you.
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    Sep 7, 2007, 02:40 PM
    Thanks guys... it really helps... I hope he does love me... because I love him... lol

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