[lizzy1989]

Hi everybody!
I've been together with this amazing guy for almost 6 months now and I'm really crazy about him. Next week I'm going to go to Spain with a lot of friends for 10 days. And he doesn't really like that, I mean he said I'm allowed to go and it's not that he made a problem out of it. But I notice that he's a little concerned. Because well, it's mainly going to be partying over there. And I understand he's a little bit worried but I booked this holiday a long time ago so..
And now, when it's our 6 month-anniversary I'm going to be in Spain. And so I wanted to do something nice for him on that day. My sister lives right next to him, so I was thinking that maybe she could put something on his frontdoor or in his mailbox or something. But I don't really know what? Well I was thinking about a card, but I also want to give him a liitle gift or I don't know. A sweet romantic gesture.. Any ideas?

[x074619]

Hi everybody!
I've been together with this amazing guy for almost 6 months now and I'm really crazy about him. Next week I'm gonna go to Spain with a lot of friends for 10 days. And he doesn't really like that, I mean he said I'm allowed to go and it's not that he made a problem out of it. But I notice that he's a little concerned. Because well, it's mainly going to be partying over there. And I understand he's a little bit worried but I booked this holiday a long time ago so..
And now, when it's our 6 month-anniversary I'm going to be in Spain. And so I wanted to do something nice for him on that day. My sister lives right next to him, so I was thinking that maybe she could put something on his frontdoor or in his mailbox or something. But I don't really know what? Well I was thinking about a card, but I also want to give him a liitle gift or I don't know. A sweet romantic gesture.. Any ideas?

Wait... what do you mean "you're allowed to go"? You def don't need permission for anyone to do anything (assuming you're over 18). If he's giving you a problem about going on vacation with your friends, that's a red flag. Just be careful with yourself. After the honeymoon stage of a relationship, sometimes the "controlling" nature of people starts to show.

In terms of a gift, romantic gesture to me always means cookies :) Have your sister pick up some cupcakes or something at a good bakery.