[Clough]

You're right. nobody really likes fat people. i'd try to loose some weight or something

There's always someone like this in every crowd. A person who has poor manners, insight and compassion. Best to just steer clear of people like this.

[xxmissconfusedxx]

I'm not upset at the immaturity of ace it just makes me stronger

[GlindaofOz]

Look at it this way you got one negative post from one ignorant person and loads of helpful posts from people who care. Pretty good I'd say.

[Clough]

i'm not upset at the immaturity of ace it just makes me stronger

I am glad for that! :)

[MOWERMAN2468]

Diets work best when combined with exercise. Get on a good diet and exercise at least 3 days per week. It sounds as though you are more troubled by being obese than the boy issue here. Enjoy life. And work hard.

[kt1205]

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I'm 16. All I can say is that there's been times where I want to give up because I don't think things will work out and sometimes I'm even getting tired of how he acts. Or I used to anyway. But even if I wanted to I would never give up and its held us together a lot longer. And we used to argue a lot now we don't. Things are almost perfect. I couldn't see it any better anyway if I was with anyone. And I've felt like that where I just want to live my life and not have him or anything to worry about but I love him so much I didn't care. And if I ever would have given up. We may or may no be together right now. But it seems like he's end up coming back eventually anyway if I would have given up. And don't say that. I don't know what you look like but you seem like a nice person. And that's all that a guy ahould care about is your personality.

[xxmissconfusedxx]

Thanks to everyone who cares
My mother and I are getting memberships to the gym and are starting to eat better

[Shaunta]

Do you think i should just give up on this guy?
I mean i feel like i'm wasting my time on him
I'm 17 i should be living my life boy free right?
But then i want him so bad i'd do ANYTHING to be with him
common i've liked him since i was 12 or 13 thats a long time
I have the right to feel like this...
Who am i kidding i should just give up i'm a fat girl and noone wants a fat girl
I donno :confused:

We can't tell you to give up on anyone... Well I would never tell you to give up on love... If you feel that you can't do it anymore then leave it alone... But if memory serves me correctly you weren't taught to be a quitter... Only you know if your wasting your time or not... See honey.. I did not find love until I was eighteen... I always thought I wasn't good enough also... I didn't give up... I found my SEXY hunk of chocolate and its been a bumpy 3 years but it was well worth it... Your too young to be worried about some boy... If he isn't worried about you you shouldn't worry about him.. I know it may seem hard but its true... What do you mean no one wants a fat girl? Shoot fat is the new skinny... I know a lot of men who likes big girls... Oh wait there not white... My bad... lol... xxmissconfusedxx... don't let it stress you... Worry about YOU and YOU only... If you don't who's going too? Love always... your beautiful sister :)