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    kaine Posts: 2, Reputation: 2
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    Aug 16, 2007, 10:40 PM
    She wants a break
    My girlfriend told me today that she wanted to take a break to find herself. She even said that she kind of likes some other guy but I asked her and she said she would not do anything with him. Should I trust her?
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    Aug 16, 2007, 10:53 PM
    Have you asked her if she would like to date the other guy? If you haven't, I would ask her that. If you really trust each other, then the communication and intents should be totally out in the open - honest and forthright.
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    Aug 16, 2007, 10:56 PM
    She promised and swore on my life that she wouldn't hook up with him and that she didn't want to go out with him. But its still hard to believe that she's going to be faithful to me.
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    Aug 16, 2007, 11:18 PM
    I would "lay it on the line" to her as to how much you really trust her. That is, that you really do, and that if she still wants a relationship with you, that you will still be there for her.

    How old are you and how old is she? I ask this because it plays an important part as to the levels of commitment that people will make as far as relationships. The commitment level will vary depending on the age of the person.
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    Aug 16, 2007, 11:33 PM
    Never a good idea to have someone swear on your life dude, especially if you're questioning whether you can trust her or not...

    But on a more serious note, I agree with clough that you need to discuss your feelings about the trust issues.
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    Aug 17, 2007, 01:13 AM
    As soon as she mentioned the other guy bro pack her bags!

    There isn't enough love in the world for that!!

    Who wants agirls who's not that into you!!

    You better wake up before she starts throwing dog biscuits at you and puts you on a leash...

    Lucky you found this out now before you were together to long... Are you ging to be a wuss and let a girl treay you like this orgrow some balls and take control!

    Girls love a guy in control, yopur girl ever talks about how she like some other guy that's fine she's out... If she was into you shewouldnt wven be thinking about anotherguy..

    Dontever sweat the competition mate cause if she loves you there isn't aby competiotion and if there ever is there shouldn't be...

    Firstly next time you speak to her tell her the breaks for the best sinceshe mentioned this guy your not that interesetd in girls like that!! Ones that talk about likng other guys I'm not into them so its for te best!!

    Don't be afraid to lose her if she's going she's going anyway..

    Think about it this way there is no way youcan stop herfrom seeing this guy and to tell you from experience she is either seeing him or thinking about itand swearing on someone's life HAHAHA Yourgunna learn the hard way bro That's A LIE!! BIG LIE If she wants this guy she will go to him swearing or not!! That's for sure...

    So what you need to do, Get tough tell gher what I told you and let herno your not standing for that, if she really wants you she will come running, this works you get your answer straight!!
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