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    carolmathenge Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 16, 2007, 04:33 AM
    Married man in my life
    :confused:
    I am dating this guy his name is Antony he was my buddy for long and I met him at my former workplace .
    Apparently we did not know that there was an attraction between us until he told me he was leaving the country .

    Antony is married but he told he will leave his wife for me he says what we share is really special and that's how I feel to . He will be leaving at the end of the month but willmake a commitment to me before he leaves and will come back for me in Dec and we will leave tog for the US .

    The reason for this to him is that he has been very lonely and his wife has been away for very long

    Please advice am so in love with him .

    Do you think it will eventually work for us .
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    Aug 16, 2007, 04:40 AM
    I think that if he'll leave his wife for you, then he'll leave you for someone else.

    Once a cheat always a cheat. You deserve better than that.
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    Aug 16, 2007, 04:44 AM
    This is what we call the "Married Man Script". Every extramarital relationship is special and different and of course he'll leave his wife for you. Of course these leaves the mistress sitting around in wait for months, years and sometimes even decades.

    No it will not work. In order to make a commitment to you he needs to be fully available to make such a commitment which he is not. If he does leave his wife for you he will in fact do the same to you. Men who cheat on their wives do not do it once they are repeat offenders.

    I'd wish him well on his move and leave him be. Find someone who is actually available and whose relationship with you will not break up a marriage
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    Aug 16, 2007, 05:07 AM
    Honestly, these relationships don't work, simply because there is always the third party involved. And every couple relationship is about two people, so there is one extra... u know what I mean... Keep enjoying the relationship if you want to minus expectations, u'll be better off this way than wanting for more from a married person...

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