[XxXscarsXxX]

Ahhhh...

He's really sad, what do I say now?

[XxXscarsXxX]

He said he's sorry and he said he shouldn't have done that

[eljay1103]

Honey think about all the times you were sad and he didn't care... hes sad now but how about once this blows over and he gets mad again and starts putting you down again... do you think he says aww she's sad let me stop..? No!

[eljay1103]

Only you know in your heart if you want to give him another chance... and if he's worthy of it...

[XxXscarsXxX]

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[XxXscarsXxX]

Okay so he's being sweet!

[eljay1103]

Soooo?? Did you forgive him?

[XxXscarsXxX]

Should I?

[JoeCanada76]

It is up to you. You told him how you feel he said sorry, not it is up to you whether you give him another chanch or not. This might be a difffulcult time for you but you need to remember that these are decisions that you need to make and again I would like to say good luck.

[XxXscarsXxX]

Just give me a yes or no... please?

[JoeCanada76]

It is not a yes or no answer. You need to make that choice for yourself.

[eljay1103]

You always forgive him... to forgive someone is a beautiful thing but that doesn't mean you have to be with him... forgive him all you want just don't take the abuse anymore

[eljay1103]

I'm sorry I didn't mean to say that you always forgive him... disregard the 1st you

[FrOsT_bItE]

Honestly? If I where you I would talk to him about it and if he doesn't stop then I would dump him. No boyfriend should treat their girlfriend this way, and visa versa. If he doesn't appreciate you then tell him to go stick his abusive mouth up where the cows don't moo (weird but true) If your boyfriend started like this when you both started going out, then I would have dumped him then and there. If I where you, I would just leave him. There's no point in being with someone who treats you like total @&!*... so think about it and if he treats you the same way the next day tell him to p(*s off coz' you can't be bothered with someone as crude and selfish and abusive as him. And if you are going to dump him, use a stern and hard voice, so that he know's that you mean it. But it's totally up to you I suppose.

[XxXscarsXxX]

Oky so now he broke up with me and I'm begging him to get back togeather? What the h*ll is wrong with me?

[Chery]

OK, sorry but I've had enough of going from one thread to another that you started Rachael, to get to know you and try to help.

DROP THE BOY NOW.. and find the real you, after you dump all the trash that has cluttered your life so far. And PLEASE don't get impatient.. and read this to the end. OK?

You have taken us from one problem to another as if in a CHAT ROOM... this is not a chat room. We do take questions very serious and really want to help.
It would seem that for some reason, you are sending pieces of a puzzle, piece by piece, and then expect us to come up with something that you 'desperately need immediate help' for in each thread.

Honey, you have some serious problems that need immediate attention, I don't deny that, but you are going about it the wrong way. It's not going to be easy for you, or anyone else in your life right now because nothing in your life has been easy.

It's unfortunate that you had to practically raise yourself. You did not get a chance to have a normal childhood therefore it's not easy for you to 'act' like a normal 12 year old.

Unfortunately, this is not something that can be 'fixed' piece by piece on the internet. This will take real people, some real hard time dedicated to helping you deal with your past and get you to a better future.

You need someone to be there for you when you get mad and cry, vent your anger, your fears, and your hopes. You've got so much bottle up inside that it will not give you room to move on right now. Please, please get some help from a councilor right now. Each day you wait, the angrier you will get - to the point of no return - and that's is not what you want.

If you can take that step to talk to someone and work with them, you'll see the difference it will make.

Stay with us and let us know how you feel, at any time, but promise that you'll get that help you desperately need, OK...

Lots and lots of HUGS!

[XxXscarsXxX]

I wish I could be punished nobody punishes me! I want to know that someone cares and doesn't want me to be like this.. but no one tells me so I guess... yeah.

Your advice is great and I'm going to take.

[Chery]

Honey, you are punishing yourself enough as it is, don't you think..

Wishing that you had caring parents that helped set boundaries for you is too late. You will have to set your own boundaries, but should not blame yourself or punish yourself if a few things go wrong.

Even if you had someone that would be willing to discipline you right now, you'd rebel.

Getting even with others because they did not know better is also not a solution.

Find some things you would like to do in your life and start over with a lot of help.

Again good luck dear, and keep us posted.

[XxXscarsXxX]

Okay thanks.. I will kepp you posted...

Trust me I will..

Lol..

[s_cianci]

He's a worthless jerk. Dump him like a hot potato. You shouldn't allow anyone to treat you like this.