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blushingbride708 · Aug 6, 2007, 11:49 PM

I am engaged but I am developing feelings for another guy what do I do or is this normal before a big comittment.

Skell · Aug 6, 2007, 11:50 PM

I hope it isn't normal!

Can you provide more detail? Who is this other guy and how is it that you have come to develop feelings for him?

blushingbride708 · Aug 7, 2007, 12:11 AM

Well my guy and I have been together for about two years and engaged for nine months. I am crazy in love with him but some things have been going on to sort of cause us to drift apart a bit. This other guy is someone that I have known for three or four years now. Normaly I haven't ever thought of him as anything more than a friend. But then he started acting more like he was attracted to me. And has been calling and talking to me a lot more than usual. Today we hung out with two of our other friends and it seemed that we made a new connection. Nothing happened of course I am a faithful person, but I am not sure what to do. I feel like there is something wrong with me for feeling this way

Grayfox · Aug 7, 2007, 12:25 AM

I wouldn't say there is something wrong with you... sadly enough this happens quite often to a lot of people... sometimes even after marriage. I would say that you're not as in love with your fiancé as you think you are if you could consider feelings for another man, however the ultimate call is yours and yours alone. You have to decide if your feelings for this man outweigh your current feelings with your fiancé, however if you feel that this may occur again after you have married your fiancé then you're wasting his and your time, not to mention creating pointless and unnecessary bonds and memories.