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allroadsleadtojamaica · Aug 6, 2007, 11:42 PM

I really really am in love right now, like, more then ever. Mike is all I can think about he is an amazing guy and hystericly funny... he's sweet, handsome, and everything about him is perfect... he is one year older than me and I met him last year in grade six and we are good friends.he was held back if your wondering. The problem is, he likes two other girls and I'm the only girl he flirts with. I don't get it. I need as much advice as I can get. PLEASE HELP ME!:o

sGt HarDKorE · Aug 6, 2007, 11:45 PM

Wait, so your going into 7th grade? Anyway he just wants the attention from the girls, so he looks cool, and I'm sure if he can, he will try to have sex with one of them. Best thing to do is not worry about it, because if you are in 7th grade, in about a week you will forget about him. But if you still want to ask him out, simply have a friend do it if you are nervous. Don't forget he is 1 year older, and between the ages of 12-18, 1 year is like a whole new life. So he probably has different thoughts than you. If he flirts with you though, I bet he likes something about you, so just ask him out

allroadsleadtojamaica · Aug 6, 2007, 11:48 PM

No, he's different, I REALLY like everything about him and I think about him constantly all the time, every day. Truly, madly, deeply.

Grayfox · Aug 6, 2007, 11:49 PM

First of all lets get one thing straight... no one is perfect, and despite the fact that he may seem everything you ever wanted and more... its rarely that simple at your age. Remember that there are plenty of other fish in the sea... you don't want a player... you want a guy who will care about you and not go around talking to other girls all the time. You have a few options, if you feel like this guy likes you... you can continue on the course you're on with him now and hope he asks you out. You could also take the initiative and ask him if he's interested or what he thinks about the two of you. Or you could ask him about the other girls to see if you can get a hint, if he says they're not really anything to him then perhaps he's hinting that he likes you and is afraid of making you jealous. Make sure you don't sell out for this guy in any way shape or form, be yourself and don't try too hard. If its right it will most likely work out... but at this age it definitely shouldn't be something you obsess over. Good luck.

allroadsleadtojamaica · Aug 6, 2007, 11:53 PM

Originally Posted by Grayfox

First of all lets get one thing straight....no one is perfect, and despite the fact that he may seem everything you ever wanted and more....its rarely that simple at your age. Remember that there are plenty of other fish in the sea...you dont want a player...you want a guy who will care about you and not go around talking to other girls all the time. If You have a few options, if you feel like this guy likes you...you can continue on the course youre on with him now and hope he asks you out. You could also take the initiative and ask him if hes interested or what he thinks about the two of you. Or you could ask him about the other girls to see if you can get a hint, if he says theyre not really anything to him then perhaps hes hinting that he likes you and is afraid of making you jealous. Make sure you don't sell out for this guy in any way shape or form, be yourself and dont try too hard. If its right it will most likely work out...but at this age it definitely shouldnt be something you obsess over. Good luck.

Wow. That's good, I'm not very good with boys... and I'm shy so obvii, I won't ask him if I'm interested.

Grayfox · Aug 7, 2007, 12:00 AM

Ok let me say one more thing, what you describe is not love... it is enfatuation, plain and simple, I'm sure you've had that talk by now and if you don't know what it is look up the difference or ask someone about it and if you don't consider yourself very good with boys maybe you should take it slower, I mean he seems to be pretty good with girls... maybe you're not ready? Not being very good with guys can sometimes be a dangerous thing... many girls find themselves unable to say no to many things they aren't comfortable with(thats no situation you want to be in) don't think you know this guy before you've met him... he could be someone out to use you, or he could be a nice guy and a good first boyfriend. Just don't get caught up in the unrealistic fantasies that cause many young people to get hurt and potentially ruin their lives. Let him make the move if he's interested, (make sure the move he makes is a respectable one) otherwise leave it alone and live your life, have fun, be safe etc.