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Aug 6, 2007, 09:27 PM
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dream man+ reality= possible?
Dear fellow advice givers,
Yep its me again haha surprise you may all know me as the 15 year old dreamer on here haha all I have ever wanted is my disney movie ending in life is that so much to ask for?. APPARENTLY! OK but back to basics of this post. OK main point is that can a girl like me obtain that disney movie ending? That fairytale? Well I imagine my fairytale with my own prince zac efron. I know what your thinking stupid 15 year old she'll never get him but wait stop your thoughts. Let me try and talk about this. I am totally and completely in love with zac efron ever since the first time I saw him on summerland. I know she can't possibly love him rite? No wrong as a matter a fact its not what's on his outer shell aka his hottness. For me he has this striking inner beauty that even when he had a huge space in his teeth and nerdy clothes I saw this spark. I know I am know eva longoria or vanessa anne hudgens. But I believe anything is possible I mean people tell me its never going to happen but I believe if I want something badly enough I can achieve it what do you think? I mean I am not ugly, fat, I have good teeth, tan skin brown hair, brown eyes, could this ordinary gal snatch the love of her life. How am I supposed to get a celebrity to even meet me? It would sure be a journey but I think it would all be worth it. I am considering acting perhaps. I don't know, maybe writing. I seem to love talking to all of you. So basically I am 15 he's 19 do me and the very own zac efron stand a chance? Please be honest, brutal if you must lol I would rather have honesty than a lie. Thanks<3 with love AandZ4ever!
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Aug 6, 2007, 09:40 PM
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Well, first of all, anything can happen, I guess but you truly need to get real. You are in lust, not in love. Love is a mutual thing between two people and this guy doesn't even know you exist. Think about it, you don't know him... he could be a rude jerk for all you know. Do you know how many other young girls feel exactly the same way as you? Millions probably! This is something I think all teenage girls go through and while its normal and fun to fantasize about the possibility of a relationship with this guy, it wouldn't be wise to mold your life around getting Zac Efron.
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Aug 6, 2007, 10:50 PM
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Thanks I really appreciate the asnwer! Its good advice. But I am already building it around zac efron lol I want the best. And he isn't a jerk lol
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Aug 6, 2007, 10:50 PM
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First of all, let me tell you that I admire your ambition. But what you must realize, is that you took the time to try to exemplify by describing your features, why you should be eligible to be with zac. This is your first mistake. You must realize that it is not what you looke like on the outside, but how you look on the inside. I will tell you that if you focus on your outer features, more than your inner features... you are already on the wrong track and are due to be disappointed time and time again. Sure physical attraction plays a role, but it is only a stand-in compared to your inner features. As rankrank55 said, anything is possible... but take a second to realize that you are trying to define how perfect zac is, when you have never met him... put simply, sure, britney spears was hot, but even justin timberlake, realized that, beyond her outer features, her inner-self had issues... it is fine to dream that you may someday be with him... but, to be honest with you, you don't know him, and the chances of you meeting with him, are slim... so go about your life, and pursue the career that you want to... but make sure it is what YOU want, and not what you think he would want or would lead you to him... because trust me, whether it is him or someone else you wind up with, they will appreciate you more for being yourself and doing what you want to do, rather than not being yourself. Good luck either way, but after all you are still young... I know you have probably heard this before, but you are only young once, and trust me, although I'm only 25... I already have started to realize that you can never go back to the past. Good luck girl, and in no way think that I am trying to discourage you. You can do what you put your mind too! That can't be said enough, but make sure you put yourself first! Always!. This portion of the site is mainly comprised of people that put others before themselves, which is why we all write our sorrow on here, instead of writing how glad we are that we care for ourselves before others... so let that be a lesson to you.
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Aug 6, 2007, 11:03 PM
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Haha brittany and justin funny! Haha well I was descirbing myself so you guys could get to know me better sorry if that came off wrong devil (nickname) lol I understand about that career thingy but haha I want to be an actress lol its just a lucky thing that zac is too I have wanted to be one since I saw my first movie in theaters lol. I really loved your response thoughtful and creative lol I just don't think you guys understand lol I mean honestly its got to be a celebrity I am with lol I'm not obsessed but I want to live that life. Lol in the fast lane.
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Aug 6, 2007, 11:17 PM
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Wow, you sure do have a lot of lol's in you. That's great that you have something that you want to pursue. You are still maturing though, you will probably look back on this one day and think wow! Good luck to you though!
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Aug 7, 2007, 03:11 PM
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Thanks! I will but I don't think I'm ever going to date in high school possibly colledge I just want the perfect guy lol and my definition of that is zac efron id even settle for jesse mccartney hha
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