[downsouth]

I love my wife, She's very sexy and I love to watch other men look at her, it really turns me on. One night while at a close friends house after a few drinks, I asked my wife to flirt with my friend just a little. It was the biggest turn on in my life and my friend was enjoying the hell out of it. As the night went on it turned into an oral Threesome. No intercourse was done. I was at one end and he was at the other. I loved it and want to do it again, My wife says "it got way out of control" and will change the subject every time I bring it up. Should I keep trying or just be glad I got to fulfill that fantasy?

[Synnen]

If she's not as into it as you are, it's best to just let it go.

If you keep bringing it up, you will just end up making her feel as though she is inadequate to fulfill your sexual needs without adding another person.

If all parties are into it, it's great, and fun and can be a great experience; however, if any of the parties feels pressured into it, it can be a relationship breaker.

[jrb252000]

I would let it go. She might be feeling ashamed of what she did. Sometimes a fantasy should stay just that. If she wants to engage in this type of activity again I'm sure she will let you know.

[kp2171]

Let it go.

At this point that door has been opened and she should have no problem stepping back through it if she were remotely interested.

Sounds like shed rather forget that night.

Same planet, different worlds.

Move on.

[Xrayman]

Mmm drop it. Nice for the one time (for you) but I think as stated above, she regrets it-move on.

[smoothy]

She was pretty clear in her answer by what you said. Let it drop or expect negative repercussions from her.

[LearningAsIGo]

Let it go, she seems very uncomfortable with what happened.

[Kattalover]

Did she enjoy what happened that night?