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        Is there more to this ?
       
      
    
    
    
                  
        A few months ago I went to Miami to spend the weekend with my older brother, 
His wife and my newborn nephew. While I was down there, I got to meet his 
Sister-in-law. We didn't really have that much interaction with her and each 
Time I saw her was when  other About 2 months later, I went down there again, 
This time for a week. During that week, I spent more time with the sister-in-law 
Than I did with my older brother and his family. We went to gym together, we 
Went to a Police concert, we went to the beach and we went out to dinner. After 
That week, my older brother and his wife have started to think that she might 
Think of me as more than just an in-law. We've kept in touch and she's even 
Talked about things we could do when I go back and she's even talked about 
Coming up here to visit me. My question is was she just being friendly or is 
There more to this and if so how I would go about finding out ?
     
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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        I'd say a woman who spent all that free time with you was finding something pretty appealing about you. The only thing you can do is continue talking to her and maybe plan a trip to see one another again and see how it goes.
     
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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        It sounds like she might have a romantic interested in you. So, yes, there might be something more to that. I guess she finds you appealing and she likes something about you. I don't know how much you know each other by now, but she definitely seems to like you.  
 
I don't think you need to go find this out, but keep on doing what you're doing: keep in touch with her, go out with her if she asks you to, let her visit you if she wants to. If you want, casually ask her to go somewhere with you. See how see reacts. Sooner or later, you'll find out what her intentions are.   
 
Is there a problem considering the fact that you are in-laws?
     
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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					  Originally Posted by  kristynn
					
				 
				It sounds like she might have a romantic interested in you. So, yes, there might be something more to that. I guess she finds you appealing and she likes something about you. I don't know how much you know each other by now, but she definitely seems to like you.  
 
I don't think you need to go find this out, but keep on doing what you're doing: keep in touch with her, go out with her if she asks you to, let her visit you if she wants to. If you want, casually ask her to go somewhere with you. See how see reacts. Sooner or later, you'll find out what her intentions are.   
 
Is there a problem considering the fact that you are in-laws? 
			
		 
	 
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        I wonder how is it going.  
 
If I may ask, what happened?
     
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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					  Originally Posted by  kristynn
					
				 
				I wonder how is it going.  
 
If I may ask, what happened? 
			
		 
	 
 Sorry about the delay in answering but since my last post, we've kept in touch via email and last weekend I went back down there to visit my brother and family. I got to spend some time with her, as well. We went to a park and then we went out to dinner. We had fun and after being with her I think I may be falling for her but I'm not too sure how to approach her.
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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					  Originally Posted by  CapAIM
					
				 
				A few months ago I went to Miami to spend the weekend with my older brother, 
his wife and my newborn nephew. While I was down there, I got to meet his 
sister-in-law. We didn't really have that much interaction with her and each 
time I saw her was when  other About 2 months later, I went down there again, 
this time for a week. During that week, I spent more time with the sister-in-law 
than I did with my older brother and his family. We went to gym together, we 
went to a Police concert, we went to the beach and we went out to dinner. After 
that week, my older brother and his wife have started to think that she might 
think of me as more than just an in-law. We've kept in touch and she's even 
talked about things we could do when I go back and she's even talked about 
coming up here to visit me. My question is was she just being friendly or is 
there more to this and if so how I would go about finding out ? 
			
		 
	 
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