Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    caelob's Avatar
    caelob Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Aug 1, 2007, 07:14 PM
    How do I become a saragent mother? I am 25 and looking to be a saragent for any type of family in need. I have a wonderful 1 1/2 son. I don't drink or smoke!
    babieface85's Avatar
    babieface85 Posts: 332, Reputation: 24
    Full Member
    		  
    #2

    Aug 2, 2007, 08:58 AM
    Google it...
    This is what could happen….
    1) You will fill out a form.
    2) You will be listed
    3) Couples will choose you
    4) You will go though medical evaluations
    5) You might get dumped
    6) Then if things work out you will be implanted and carry the baby
    ScottGem's Avatar
    ScottGem Posts: 64,966, Reputation: 6056
    Computer Expert and Renaissance Man
    		  
    #3

    Aug 2, 2007, 09:00 AM
    Do you mean surrogate mother?
    alkalineangel's Avatar
    alkalineangel Posts: 2,391, Reputation: 323
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #4

    Aug 2, 2007, 09:06 AM
    First of all spell it correctly - surrogate.

    Secondly, please be sure you are emotionally as well as physically ready. Surrogacy is hard. You will carry a child that often times is not yours (gestational surrogacy) and will then give it away immediately. You will not nurse, you will most likely not hold it for more than a few minutes, and very rarely will you see the child again.

    You will need to find a organization that handles surrogacy. They will put you through a series of interviews, and medical tests. You will see a psychiatrist, and will really look at your history and family history. Then you will be placed in a waiting list in hopes that you will be chosen as a possible surrogate by the company. Once you are chosen by the company, you will go in a pool, where possible parents can select you. Some will want to use your eggs, and then the medical and family history will come into play, some will want to use their own embryos and have them implanted.

    If you are selected, you will be at the whim of the expectant parents. They will come to the doctor appointments, to the ultrasound, everything. If the mother doesn't want you to eat or drink something, you don't do it. They are paying your medical expenses and most likely you, you are their employee, and you must do as they want. This is often the hardest part.

    I can't even explain how difficult it is to do this. It is wonderful making someone's life happier, but it is so hard on you. Please do a lot of research and make sure you are well prepared for the task ahead before making a decision. I can't urge a counselor more, also make sure you have a good support system.
    MrsHec4's Avatar
    MrsHec4 Posts: 118, Reputation: 4
    Junior Member
    		  
    #5

    Aug 2, 2007, 06:14 PM
    Do it because you really want to help someone not because you want the money.
    fireman804's Avatar
    fireman804 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #6

    Jan 5, 2008, 12:18 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by caelob
    how do i become a saragent mother? iam 25 and looking to be a saragent for any type of family in need. i have a wonderful 1 1/2 son. i dont drink or smoke!
    What are you asking for in return?
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Mother-In-Law Acts Like My Children's Mother [ 6 Answers ]

I would like some advice on how to handle a situation with my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law was always the kind of woman who loved kids immensely, wanted to be a stay-at-home mom, her whole life revolves around her kids, etc. I think that is absolutely fabulous. Me, on the other hand, I've...

My mother acts like a bill collector more than a mother [ 9 Answers ]

I need an opinion... my mother has lent me money for some computer programs and we get our cell phones together so I deposit mine in her account every month to pay for mine and pay her monthly to pay her back for my programs. Lately, my work has been slow, and I will not have the money until next...

How do I become a saragent mother? [ 3 Answers ]

I want to be a saragent mother so bad. I want to put the best kind of joy into someone's life. I'm in Turlock, Ca. I'm 20 years old will be 21 in July. I have two children already both pregnancy went great. Went to full term with both of them. I'm not a drinker nor a smoker. Very healthy.

Saragent mother [ 1 Answers ]

Hello iwas trying to find out how to become a sar. Mother I am moving to New Mexico any one have any info..

Looking For Saragent Mother [ 14 Answers ]

Hello I am 23 years old and My partner and I are looking to have a baby the problem is we are both males. I know that most people find it wrong in many ways for two men or two women to have a child together. Right now myself and my partner would like to adopt a child, but it is not right for us to....

View more questions Search