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    enjoli Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 26, 2007, 07:29 AM
    Will he marry me?
    Me and my boyfriend have been together for 10yrs. And he haven't asked me to marry me . Should I move on or stick with him.
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    Jul 26, 2007, 07:35 AM
    What does you heart tell you to do?
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    Jul 26, 2007, 07:37 AM
    Have you TALKED about marriage with him?

    For most guys, it's just a piece of paper! They don't CARE about the whole marriage/wedding thing, because really--what's going to change?

    You need to have a discussion about marriage with your boyfriend.
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    Jul 26, 2007, 08:02 AM
    If you want to marry this guy then you are going to have to let him know and then give him a push in the right direction.
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    Jul 26, 2007, 08:09 AM
    Yes please talk to him DON'T assume anything. My ex fiancé ALWAYS assumed everything without talking to me before she broke up with me.
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    Jul 26, 2007, 08:29 AM
    Right, can't assume everything! You will suffer from assuming everything.
    Talk to him is the best. We haven't met him, even we did, we can't give you the answer.
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    Jul 27, 2007, 12:54 PM
    After 10 years you should have had this conversation many times already.
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    Jul 27, 2007, 01:08 PM
    You have to talk to him about it. I've been with my husband 8 years, but we just got married last month. We talked about it after 2 years together though, so that we both knew what to expect out of the relationship.

    If you haven't had this conversation, do so. If you have and he didn't satisfy your question, you might have to bring it up again and tell him how you feel. If the two of you aren't on the same page, it may be time for you both to move on.

    Good luck
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    Jul 27, 2007, 03:30 PM
    Don't just up & leave 10 years together. Talk to him... ask him how he sees you guys' future. Good Luck:)
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    Jul 27, 2007, 08:38 PM
    Talking is the best thing you can do. If he feeds you that crap about him not caring that it's not important or it doesn't make a difference and it's just a paper. Let him know you want it. Tell him it make you happy knowing he'd give himself to you and commit in that way because you obviously want to do just that. Let him know that even though he doesn't feel it's that big of a deal that it is to you. If he doesn't budge you'll know where he's crossed the line of "not wanting to commit forever" you seem ready do what makes you happy. Don't allow anyone to take you for granted.
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