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    anadiks Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 13, 2007, 11:45 AM
    I lied her, now she dsnt love me :-(
    I lied to my love about my job and salary. When she got to know this.. the love has gone away. I am very sad. Nw she only has sympathy for me. I am feelinf very depressed. She fought for me with her family but in return I spoke a lie to her. I don't know how to cope up with this. I want to die, can any 1 please kill me? I cnt commit suicide because I am coward person. HELP! I really want to die..
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    Jul 13, 2007, 11:47 AM
    So she loved you for your job and salary? I'm thinking you are better off without her.

    Next time, don't lie. A real woman will love you for YOU, not for what you have.
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    Jul 13, 2007, 11:51 AM
    Stop! In the name of sweet Jesus! I rebuke those thoughts in the name of Jesus! Listen to me... We all have gone through things on this site... This site helps tremendously... You need to get a hold of yourself... I know that you are feeling as if she tried so hard for you while you were lying but we all make mistakes and now you learned and now you finally be happy. Standing up and admitting you made an error is the first step. After that just don't do it again. You will be fine... Suicide and all that crap never does any good. I mean you and I both know that sometime soon out of nowhere another much more beautiful and nicer woman will want to talk to you and soon after you will have 10 years together and 4 kids. So relax and just let it go because there is nothing you can do. Be happy. How old are you? What job did you say you had and what job do you have? How much money did you say you earn and how much money did you earn?
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    Jul 13, 2007, 11:56 AM
    Try prooving that you're a good person and that you won't ever do this again, and if she only liked you because of your job and salary and not who you really are, I don't think you guys are "Ment To Be". Hope I helped:)
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    Jul 13, 2007, 11:59 AM
    Get a better job and stop lying.
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    Dec 12, 2007, 11:47 PM
    Firstly, did she love you because you were rich/powerful? If she did, she's a slut and she's not worth shedding a tear for.

    But, did she love you but lost the love because you lied? Now if that's so, it's your fault. Plain hard truth. I don't want you to commit suicide because everyone's life is special. Life is rare. You only have one chance so make the most of it.

    Committing suicide or letting someone else kill you is plain stupid. Because once you committed suicide, you would rather live. You should fix your mistakes I have listed them here:

    1. don't lie
    2. ask for forgviness and remain as friends
    3. don't be sad. Look on the bright side that now you've made a mistake you can actually fix it to make you a better person
    4. be positive and get a better job

    Ps. If my advice and everyone else's advice doesn't help if you really want to commit suicide, (which I hope you don't. This is a desperate situation) make sure you can swim and jump off a bridge (not too high). That way, if you change your mind, you land into the water and swim off knowing that your life is precious and mistakes should get fixed.

    What you're doing now is hiding from them and the suicide bit is just if you want to die so badly. (which you are now) but what I mean is that you should take some of the advice and not commit the suicide part.

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