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    guitarguy07 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 6, 2007, 05:59 PM
    Did she orgasm?
    Hiya, I just got into a new relationship, (my first), and my girlfriend and I have been doing some mutual masturbation. She won't let me go under her panties yet, so I just rub on her underwear. She gets very excited and after a while tells me to stop because her gets really really sensitive and ticklish. This happens a lot, and one time I gave it a minute then started again and she said it felt really really good the second time it happened. She also gets very wet during this. She isn't really sure what she is feeling cause she doesn't really masturbate on her own, but said it was kind of a build up and release the second time. Is she orgasming? Or does the just get sensitive during this technique? And we just have to continue more to get to that point? Please help. Thanks
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    Jul 6, 2007, 07:28 PM
    No one but her can say if she actually climaxed. There are often small "hills" before the mountain. And getting wet is very normal. Even if she doesn't climax she will get very wet as she gets more excited. I would say... keep experiementing... see if she will let you go longer or try other things including her masturbating to learn more about her body. If she gets more sensitive... be easier/lighter with your touch. If she will allow you... oral will probably be very effective as it's not as firm. Time/experience will tell. Good luck.
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    Jul 6, 2007, 07:43 PM
    Don't do any talking but tease more. Run your finger under the elastic leg of her panties while touching her skin in that area. Trail your fingers across her tummy and lightly massage the skin below her belly button. Stroke the upper parts of her thighs. Kiss here here and there (lips, neck, under her ear) meanwhile. Build up the sexual tension and wanting.

    (Pardon me for a few minutes. I must get my breathing back to normal.)
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    Jul 8, 2007, 08:34 PM
    I really doubt if she climaxed-you need to get her panties off! Not much real sex takes place with panties on!

    If she doesn't masturbate-you have a steep road to climb before YOU will get her to climax...

    Cheers and good luck.

    I'm pretty sure I do!! With reference the comment below! Although I don't know what makes YOU climax-that's where you are right.

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