[rrcheer2007]

So I do not no what to do!! Me and my ex were together for almost six months but we were way close and hooked up befte that!! We broke up because he said that he could od better:( I miss him like crazy! I was a wreck when we broke up!! Now we talk all the time! But he says that we do not need to talk everyday because we are not together! So I tried not being friends with him but he said that is not what he wants ! Well we still have our occasional hook ups and when we do we both say "with no attachments" but we all no how that works! I try to get over him but I just cant! He was there for me threw so much and I can not just let him go! I have never been in love before but I have never had a break up hurt this bad! I am afraid of losing him and I can't get over him


HELP:eek:

[nauticalstar420]

To answer your question, yes, you should get over him. You deserve so much better than him. He says he can do better than you, yet he still wants the occaisional hook ups? What you are doing is letting him have his cake and eat it too. He is getting a good deal out of this. He can hook up with you whenever he wants and date other people too, and he leaves you upset and hurting. Its not fair. I know breaking up is hard, and it takes a while to get over it, but it would be better for you in the long run to move on. :)

[SAB123]

My ex fiancé of 5 yrs broke up with me 5 months ago when I talk or hear about her from someone it makes me think of her and miss her. I was deeply in love with her although I have let go it still hurts sometimes. My suggestion to you would be rid yourself from that jerk. He using you for sex. And the only way for you to get over him is not to see him anymore. If you don't do this you will be stuck in neutral. My ex played a lot of head games with me these past 5 months. Maybe for me not to move on and it's was working. But the past 2 weeks have made myself totally unavailable to her. Trust me when I say this do not contact him or see him no more.

[talaniman]

Stop hooking up as the emotional attachment can never heal, while your having sex. Cut all contact, as he is still fresh on your mind and still have strong feelings.