[aaron80]

Im so confusedabout girls. Im 26 and ex is 23years old and had a 3 year relatonship and she left ststing she nded time on her own and didn't want to be so clingy anymore. Se said I was her whole life and that was not healthy she wanted to grow and findherself.

Hy when I pushed her away in the relaionship she kept coming and when I let her come over all the time she then decided she was clingy. She hs always been the same but while I was busy doing more of my own stuff she never wanted a break and was glad to alays see me. But when I started to let her come round more often she decided that se was to clingy??

Is it bestjust to say your too busy and caant see her all the time. Sems like girls are more interested when you are busy and even if this means only seeing them twice a week... I wanted to see her like 4 times a week in the end and she left. Yet when I could only seeher twiceshe was wrapped!!

[huno]

I see the "I need to find myself" excuse a lot on this message board, and I contend it is just a BS excuse to break a relationship. Tomorrow she'll probably be with some other guy. Sad, but true. Who needs to "find themselves?"

She sounds like the kind of girl who wants what she can't have. You push her away, she thinks she's losing you and rushes back. Then you act like you care and she leaves, content that she had you. She sounds very immature.