[frookie]

I have been dating this guy for almost a year now, and at least twice a week I am plagued by bad dreams. I have had these dreams probably ever since we started dating. In all dreams, they are the same, some things are different in the dreams like where I am at, who's around me, but the same thing happens every time. I find out that my boyfriend is cheating on me, and when I question him about it, he wants to break up. Now in my dreams, it feels as if me and him have been together for years, even sometimes we are married and have children together. I don't know why I dream these dreams, since in reality I trust him, and never really think about him cheating. I don't know, but if someone else knows what it means, and why I dream them so much please tell me, because they are so disturbing that I can never get back to sleep, and even though they are just dreams, I don't want to start believing them... even though they feel so real. :'(

[andrea]

Usually something has happened in the day to trigger this in a dream at night.
There must be something in his attitude , mood, that is irking you. Have you ever ,asked him out right if he is losing interest, or get acknowledgement to this fact.
I know you say you trust him, but that's now the issue.
The issue is has he gone astray and can't make up his own mind about his feelings. Talk this out,
I will tell you dreams are feelings and yes I feel they are real issues.

[trainman3545]

I concur with Andrea's reply.

[AngelwithVision]

You seem to have an inner doubt about him something is bothering you although you say don't seem to know why you have this dream. Also the other Dreamsymbols my be signifigent such as the baby and the marriage how did they appear?

You may experience new changes or have a new outlook on a Situation in your life. Also sometimes dreams just means the reversed depends on if they appear more often than it also could be a warning sign.

[frookie]

UPDATE!!!

December 8th 2003, I found out he was cheating on me with one of his female co-workers. Just as in my dreams, when I confronted him about it he immediately wanted to break up.

Lets just say that we have worked everything out, sort of :-/. We have a lot of things that we need to work on, and a lot of things to move passed us, but I know we can do it.

I haven't had anymore dreams since I found out, well I had one or two but I think that was because of all the stress I was under at the time. So I have been dream free, and the doubt and mistrust is also seeming to fade.

Lets just hope everything goes right this time around :)

Andrea

[andrea]

You went six months before you found out the truth.
You went six months under the stress of thinking of how much you trust him, and believed in him..

Now you find out the truth... you can't trust him... and I will also say...
If he wanted to breakup as soon as you found out... you should have...
To hold on is terribly wrong... you probably don't think so because you trust and love him... bull...

He is staying because like he stayed for the last 6 months... doesn't want to hurt you intentionally,that's their way... also you are a good excuse to next next girl he is with... over and over,

He has started and got away with it, and now will be good for a while, then do it again, now knowing how to achieve his goals...

Sorry... I know all aren't alike, but, I can almost say for certain this will happen over and over...

And don't let him say to you that its your imagination working over time... the next time you sense some little thing... as he will use that trick also, and make you believe it...

Good luck to you, and the best... sorry that I am spouting off where its not my business, but be careful...

[pbe62]

That episode was very interesting, whatever became of it. I have reoccurring dreams, but it is of a reconciliation, and I can't really say I am entertaining the thoughts yet, I don't let myself think on it, I'm making myself move on, but the dreams are reoccuring as your, but opposite in nature. Tell me what's going on now