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SAB123 · Jun 15, 2007, 05:27 AM

Well, I did not contact her I feel pretty good in a way but saw her again yesterday and missing her a lot. Maybe she wants to come back but feels stupid for breaking up with me again and don't know how to come back. But going to Chicago on one my friends friend boat that will definitely keep my mind off her. Hopefully will meet some nice looking chicks.

Jiser · Jun 15, 2007, 05:45 AM

She broke up with you its her problem not yours. So deal with it! Fck your ex, fck my ex we deserve better.

emopunk7 · Jun 15, 2007, 07:03 AM

If she wants to come back, she will find a way. You shouldn't want her back. My gosh, she put you through all this and you are still thinking of taking her back. You can be so much happier with another. What she does to you isn't healthy. You should be darn glad she left and made it easier for you. Don't feel bad for her by saying maybe she doesn't know how to come back. If she wants you she will do anything in her power to get you back! Anybody would especially if they love you. But enough is enough with this one. Try to forget her. She makes you miserable! I bet I can make you happier and I'm a guy. Imagine another WOMAN! You have it in you SAB123! Go get this great life of yours!!

SAB123 · Jun 15, 2007, 07:31 AM

Originally Posted by emopunk7

If she wants to come back, she will find a way. You shouldn't want her back. My gosh, she put you through all this and you are still thinking of taking her back. You can be so much happier with another. What she does to you isn't healthy. You should be darn glad she left and made it easier for you. Don't feel bad for her by saying maybe she doesn't know how to come back. If she wants you she will do anything in her power to get you back! Anybody would especially if they love you. But enough is enough with this one. Try to forget her. She makes you miserable! I bet I can make you happier and I'm a guy. Imagine another WOMAN! You have it in you SAB123! Go get this great life of yours!!!

Thanks Emo, what you said made me laught and some of the other posts you put on here for other people made me laugh on some. That's what I need to laugh I think everyone here needs a good laugh.

SAB123 · Jun 18, 2007, 11:16 AM

I feel so hurt rite now but better the Friday. To start my ex's sons step brother kept driving past my house Fri at least 3 times. Then I'm sitting in back yard and he pulled over. I asked what up with ex and he said with a stupid grin on his face she has a boyfriend now, he drives a jeep with big, big tires on them. Then just leaves. Then a couple yours later neighbor said she drove past. I cried for 4 hours straight. Then Sat he comes over again to see how I'm managing with the sitiation then leaves acouple minutes later. She has me thinking of her so much, I'm so jealous and hurt my heart is hurting again. I don't know if she's making it up or what. I can't see my high maintenance ex driving around in a jeep. But I broke NC today and emailed her and said I hope everything works out with you and new boyfriend. That was about 6 hours ago. Either she doesn't have boyfriend or she's too much of a coward to e-mail me back.I think I'm back at square one and I think I want her back.

Sdjosh · Jun 18, 2007, 11:28 AM

Im sorry that you are going through this pain all over again. It was wrong of him to come over and say that. He did it to hurt you. But I don't think that she has a new BF... I think that was just a means to get a reaction from you and hurt you. She may have even been behind it.

I don't think that breaking no contact was the best thing to do but you can't undo the past. I can understand that you want her back but given the past do you really think that would be in your best interest? She has yet again found a way to hurt you and put off your progress at healing.

SAB... my friend... think of yourself. Look at how long you have been hurting. How much you have suffered at her expense. You deserve to be happy. Do you think she is really capable of making you happy?

SAB123 · Jun 18, 2007, 11:42 AM

Not no more, my mom and sister say the same thing she behind it. I'm so jealous rite now and she has me driving some what to her house but far enough she can't see me. And I have not seen any monster jeep their. I mean why would he even bring the guy has this monster truck. I just want to go home and drink and cry for a while. I just can't get her out of my mine now. If she was dating him why would she drive past my house a lot and even go out of her way. When I see her driving she looks depressed all the time. And how come she doesn't e-mail me back. If she was seeing some one why would she say yes I'm dating move on. I just miss and love her so much.

emopunk7 · Jun 18, 2007, 11:42 AM

Oh SAB... Nothing to worry about. Just stay strong at this point of your life. I know it's difficult. Everything will be okay my friend.. Just hang in there! I'm here for you!

SAB123 · Jun 18, 2007, 11:49 AM

I believe she's making this up but the thought of another guy kissing and all over my ex makes me sick. I thought love was forever. I'm so depressed rite now I don't care about anything any more. If she's coming back for gods sake come back now then I can make descion I hate this.

emopunk7 · Jun 18, 2007, 11:58 AM

Relax... Try moving on... She isn't coming back... You know this.

SAB123 · Jun 18, 2007, 12:03 PM

Why does she do this to me I DID not do anything to her. If I'm a guy I not going to go to friends house ask how he's managing then leave, That's the only question he asked me and left. My garage door was open and taliking to neighbors at about 10:30 at night. I was gone all day and got home around 9:30 I drove past her house to see if any guy was their, both her mom and ex car was in the street, they have a drive way. THeir was no guy and they were home swimming May be she saw my truck and called him up. Now I'm analizing every thing again.

Sdjosh · Jun 18, 2007, 12:05 PM

Originally Posted by SAB123

Why does she do this to me I DID not do anything to her. .

Not to be a jerk SAB... but you are letting her do this to you. Don't. You know what the right thing to do is. Just do it!

SAB123 · Jun 18, 2007, 12:06 PM

Originally Posted by emopunk7

Relax...Try moving on...She isn't coming back...You know this.

I'm going again to move on but why does she keep driving past my house. If I broke up with her I wouldn't drive past her house. Plus with a girlfriend I wouldn't drive past.

ceeceesworld · Jun 18, 2007, 12:08 PM

Originally Posted by SAB123

It's been 2 months of NC and I know it is wrong but, me and ex past each other yesterday she looked at me but didn't look at her. I went to get food and was coming home 10 min later and she was driving opposite direction again why, prbaly to see if I was going to grocery store, but when she looked me again she looked so sad and from the expression she gave me I think she knows again she made a mistake. But I just want to e-mail her to see how she is doing because she looks sooo sad. I no I can't take her back but she looked so beautiful and maybe we can be friends when I'm fully healed. What should I do?:confused:

From personal experience, the worst thing you can do for yourself and the person you were with is to make that call and try to reconnect. If the relationship is over, leave it alone. A breakup of a LT relationship, marriage, etc is like a death and people must grieve over the loss. You aren't weak to show compassion, but in the end it would probably be better for both of you not to have any contact. Take a deep breath and delve into a new activity. Change your habits or develop new ones and move on.

SAB123 · Jun 18, 2007, 12:10 PM

Originally Posted by Sdjosh

Not to be a jerk SAB....but you are letting her do this to you. Don't. You know what the right thing to do is. Just do it!

I know I'm doing this to myself I guess deep down I want her back and I don't know why I feel this way. Maybe I'm lonely and if she not making this up, upset she found someone before I did.

SAB123 · Jun 18, 2007, 12:14 PM

I just want to be loved again I'm tired of seeing people holding hands and kissing. I miss this so much. Before she started driving by 6 weeks ago I started getting my confindence back. Now I feel like I'm going to be alone forever.

Sdjosh · Jun 18, 2007, 12:30 PM

Originally Posted by SAB123

I just want to be loved again I'm tired of seeing people holding hands and kissing. I miss this so much. Before she started driving by 6 weeks ago I started getting my confindence back. Now I feel like I'm going to be alone forever.

I know where you are coming from... I feel this way a lot lately as well. It's a hard thing to feel. But Im trying to take it as an opportunity for personal growth. To realize that I can be strong on my own. That I can have all those things but my happiness does not depend on those things. I stumble a lot... im not perfect but I don't fail because I keep trying.

SAB123 · Jun 18, 2007, 12:36 PM

I just wish I new what she was thinking and her intentions are. If she is dating, I can't believe she has moved on this fast.

Sdjosh · Jun 18, 2007, 12:43 PM

Originally Posted by SAB123

I just wish I new what she was thinking and her intentions are. If she is dating, I can't belive she has moved on this fast.

You don't really know if she is dating first of all. Second there is no way to know what she is thinking and you should waste your time.

That being said... I understand. Its hard. But you know what you have to do. You are priority #1.

SAB123 · Jun 18, 2007, 12:50 PM

I guess I'll take it one day at a time again. And deal with what comes my way when it happens. I just can't believe this has happened again for the 5-6 time. Why can't she make up her mind of what she wanted years ago. When He did tell me she has boyfriend I said to him F**k her, I guess if she has moved on this fast she never loved me any ways. And she can take that engagement ring and shove it up her A**.