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    jokerperhaps Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 12, 2007, 11:01 AM
    My exgirlfriend cheated on me with her high school sweetheart
    My exgirlfriend cheated on me with her exboyfriend twice in our 1 year relationship. They were together for 4 and a half years before he said they needed a break to figure if he really wants to be with her. She said, "No way, I don't do breaks."

    So they broke up.

    She met me. I swept her off her feet. He regreted breaking up and begged her back. He would be a pain in my neck because he'd always call her. So I said you need to choose one of us. You can't have him around.

    She chose me. About 10 months later I caught her talking about how she has faith they can get back together!! So I print out this letter I found and handed it to her. I said I'm breaking up with you because of this.

    The next few days she called countless times and begged for me to give her a second chance. Eventually I did, with high hopes she learned her lesson. I know I know, I am naïve.

    Anyway, I give her the chance... and she talks to him the same way AGAIN!! This time our relationship was over for good. This was about 2 months ago. Anyway, she sent me a text message that says "Call me if you want to go to Disneyland."

    ? Fire some feedback my way. Thanks
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    Rockabilly1955mama Posts: 662, Reputation: 85
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    Jun 12, 2007, 11:05 AM
    This is all up to you. I think she is confused and is stuck between both of you. Either you or him need to take her because from what this reads, she seems like she doesn't know what she wants and she's taking you both to her advantage.

    I myself wouldn't go as a relationship thing if I were to go to dinseyland with her. It would be a friends only vaction. And I would let her know that.

    Hope this helped!
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    Jun 12, 2007, 11:23 AM
    I failed to see the cheating part...
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    Jun 12, 2007, 03:02 PM
    No way, have some respect for yourself. She has unresolved feelings she needs to work on! Don't put yourself through that, leave her in her own confusion. It will be hard but you will come out a stronger person. Life is to short to be put through sh*t. Don't take it and don't give it.
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    Jun 12, 2007, 03:21 PM
    Wouldn't you say that your trust in her is gone? Once you lose that you have lost everything. I've been there and have tried to make relationships work after the trust is gone. Trust me... you will never be the same. I turned in a paranoid freak. You will always wonder if she's still in contact with him.

    Do yourself a favor and leave her. You need to find someone who knows what they want... you.
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    Jun 12, 2007, 03:43 PM
    Drop her... nothing more to say she cheated on you twice once is enough
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    Jun 12, 2007, 11:09 PM
    Even if you want to go to DIsneyland, you should rather go alone than with her :|
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    Apr 19, 2008, 01:24 PM
    I think your better off without her because I think no matter what she will always go back to him or talk to him. It is sort of her "comfort" zone so the chances of him leaving the two of you alone is very slim. However everyone is different so if you do happen to give her a chance just be very careful with trusting her.
    I hope everything works out for you!
    Britster
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