[lovelylady1]

OK so I have all the symptoms... only that.. my period is really really irregular... starting from 3 months ago... first it was really light, second it skipped and the next month it started but light... and then the last one I just had.. was light... and my periods last about 5 days.. these only last 2-3days... so... then I go to the doc.. tells me no.. So I was like why do I have all the symptoms... and she would never answer my questions or listen to what I had to say... and I feel really weird in my stomach sometimes.. it hurts in certain spots sometimes... I just don't understand.. me and my boyfriend been trying for 5 months.. is it my mind... or am I crazy... or am I really pregnant? And then they told me that the hcp said one yes.. and one no.. Then looks at me and just says.. no your no pregnant! So what in the hell do I do... I need another doc for real.

[danielnoahsmommy]

I think its time for a new doc and some bloodwork

[alkalineangel]

Did the doctor do a vaginal exam? Are you going to a OBGYN? Or a GP? You need to go to an OBGYN and request blood work. They will do a vaginal exam and will be able to tell simply by looking whether you are pregnant if you are really that far along. I don't know what a hcp is, IM assuming you meant hcg, but depending on the brand of pregnancy test they were using, there could be two lines, and she was saying that one line was there but not the other. If you did go to an OBGYN I would seek another opinion. You need to make sure you get a blood test and a vaginal exam and or ultrasound. If that shows nothing, then you are not pregnant and they need to start figuring out what it is that is the problem. Good luck.

[Myth]

Get a new dr. Your paying for their services and if they don't make the time to answer your questions then you don't have the time to pay them... go get a second opinion asap

[babieface85]

You need to see another doctor. Also take a home test and the results for yourself. Your doctor makes enough money to answer your questions. You have the right to know what's going on with your own body.

[buggage]

Definitely get a second opinion. When it comes to your body, esp when you have a gut feeling that something isn't right, you need to get answers, and soon. You've been having these symptoms for far too long, to not get good answers, and advice from your doctor. You said you had pains in your stomach? Are they constant, and located in the same general area? Are they getting worse? A friend of mine didn't know what was going on with her body, she was having all the symptoms of pregnancy, but the hpts said no, and so did the qualatative blood test. Her doctors kept putting her on the side burner and not giving her answers. She finally pushed them to get a quantative blood test, and the levels were hcg levels pointed towards pregnancy. They gave her an ultrasound, and she ended up having an ectopic pregnancy(which, if left untreated for too long, can be life threatening) my point isn't to scare you.just saying its definitely something that you deserve to have answers about, whether its serious or not. Its easy to becoming intimidated when it comes to your doctor, but just remember that with out their patients, they wouldn't have a job, and therefore, you are THEIR employer. You deserve answers about your health. Don't stop asking questions until you are satisfied with the answers you get. Good luck to you, hope all goes well.

[lovelylady1]

Well. My pains in my stomach is like.. a spot.. its only sometimes.. it hurts not badly.. but enough where you can feel it and that's it.. and especially my boobs were hurting for about 2 months so... yeah.. but the hurting is all around my stomach..

[buggage]

Typically if its an ectopic, the pain is typically around the belly button region. It starts on one side. If left long enough, the pain gets much worse. I would definitely suggest you get in to another doc as soon as possible. Even if it is not ectopic, is sounds as though something is off, and it would be wise to find out why soon good luck too you hun, let us know.

[lovelylady1]

Also this one time or maybe 2 time.. lol.. when I was laying down on my side.. if felt like something moved on my other side up.. and I was like. What the hell. And the other time I felt it again by my boobs.. so yeah. What do you think it would be.. not my nerves in my body right.. or could be ? I never had this happen before?

[lovelylady1]

And sometimes the pain does hurt a little bit more than normal.. it started lightly.. and then a little harder by the time goes by...

[newlablover]

I think you need to go to either the health department and get a blood test done or get an appointment with another doctor. If you don't feel something is right, go with your gut feeling and see a doctor. You know your body.

[buggage]

Definitely. There's not much else we can tell you to help you out with this... only a doctor can diagnose you and help you figure out what is going on and how to fix it. I wish you the best of luck hun, and keep us posted. Get to a doc soon.

[MrsJoseph06]

You need to see another OBGYN~ ASAP! If it's an etopic pregnancy that is very serious! You could also have a wide range of problems from cysts to endometriosis! Good luck and get into someone soon!

[lovelylady1]

OK thank you all for trying to help me. I know I need to go to another doc.. I will soon... I hope it is pregnancy if not.. oh.. what could it else be.. well.. thanks again.. later