[cutie08]

I really still have strog feelings for my ex who broke up with me and I really want to go back out with him and I donno what to do my friends say he still likes me but does anyone have advice about getting him bac help please!?

[letmeno]

Besides your friends telling you that he wants to get back with you, have you actually heard it from the horses mouth?

Has he even given you any clues that he may want you back?

Has he even tried to contact you since the break up?

Is he still single?

If you answered no to 1 or more of the above questions, then I suggest that you maybe need to move on. I don't think that I would even be giving someone who broke up with me a second thought!

[fredg]

Hi,
Your ex broke up with you for a reason; probably because he doesn't want to be going with you anymore!
Move on, meet new people.
If he decides that he wants you back, and by that time if you want him back, it will work out. Give him space, and don't try doing or saying things to try getting him back.
Let him decide.
Best of luck,
fredg

[Tony2005]

What was the reason that you'll broke up ? Humans always wants to remain with the familiar. Maybe you are getting aware of the uncertainty of the future and you want him back in your life. How can you say that you won't break up again with him after you get along ? Think deeper. Maybe you just want your past back to be certain of your future and not really in love with him.

[dimples]

One thing I've learned the hard way. Women are volatile while men are stable. Emotionally, I mean for most. We often change our minds. When a woman says BREAK UP, it is a 50-50 situation. You may get back with him in a few days or its really, really over. But when it's the guy who says that, its usually a no win situation. So if I were you, move on. Find interesting activities to occupy your mind & your time. Try theater, singing, dancing, anything. Also, motivate yorself to move on. The planet is filled with more than a billion guys. Take your pick. :)