[zooropa1985]

Hey, most of you will know my story but for those who don't basically my girl dumped me by text with no warning and its been a bit of a rocky road since.

Its week 5 now and I'm starting to accept the fact that me and my ex may never get together again but here's a few questions.

What happens when you make someone your whole world, I mean you shut everything else out, I stopped seeing my friends, stopped doing what I used to do because me and my ex would spend all our free time together, I even cancelled my big party for my 21st because I wanted it to be a quiet one with just me and her. So what happens when you make someone your whole world and then suddenly they are gone?

I feel like I have nothing left, everything has been stripped and taken away.

I know its usually the other way round but I'm the one who is finding this hard to get over, my ex is seemingly fine, back to normal, can you really shut feelings out like that? I'm confused about what she really felt for me during the relationship?

I saw her in her car the other day with some of her mates, I waved but she just blanked me and drove on, I know she saw me. All I could feel was anger, she couldn't even wave back, would that have signaled marriage? No it would just have been a simple gesture!

It would be more undestandable if she found someone else and was acting like this but she says she hasn't and I believe her, I just don't understand why she is so distant and is seemingly fine?

[lisalou]

you learn. I did that with my first relationship and now I make sure I make time for everyone. It is difficult but the odd weekend I will spend with my friends alone, my boyfriend will go see his uni mates on his own. Get back in contact with your friends, aplogise for the way you tossed them aside and say that you realise you treated them badly.

I grew to value my friends hugely when I was single, and I would never do what I did first time around again. You HOPE that love stays forever, but in reality it is your friends that will stick with you through thick and thin, make time for them!

[fix-what-you-broke]

You should never make anyone your entire world. They should become a part of it.

[angelic_voice]

Hey, most of you will know my story but for those who dont basically my girl dumped me by text with no warning and its been a bit of a rocky road since.

Its week 5 now and im starting to accept the fact that me and my ex may never get together again but heres a few questions.

What happens when you make someone your whole world, i mean you shut everything else out, i stopped seeing my friends, stopped doing what i used to do because me and my ex would spend all our free time together, i even cancelled my big party for my 21st because i wanted it to be a quiet one with just me and her. So what happens when you make someone your whole world and then suddenly they are gone?

i feel like i have nothing left, everything has been stripped and taken away.

I know its usually the other way round but im the one who is finding this hard to get over, my ex is seemingly fine, back to normal, can you really shut feelings out like that? im confused about what she really felt for me during the relationship?

i saw her in her car the other day with some of her mates, i waved but she just blanked me and drove on, i know she saw me. All i could feel was anger, she couldnt even wave back, would that have signaled marriage? no it would just have been a simple gesture!

It would be more undestandable if she found someone else and was acting like this but she says she hasnt and i believe her, i just dont understand why she is so distant and is seemingly fine?

Wow, you've pretty much been to hell these past 5 weeks.but I'm here to let you know, and since I'm a female too, we have a way to act like stuff doesn't bother us, when in reality were going insane.she's more than likely avoiding you because it hurts too bad to acknowledge you.even though she broke it off, you don't know the whole story behind it, maybe you should talk to some of the people you guys hung out with together, or some of her friends you know wouldn't say anything to her. And despite all the feelings of anger and resentment you feel, you should find a way to let her know you love her and you still care.she probably would like to hear that.but keep your head up and stay strong. Don't give up yet.
If you love somebody that means you have a good heart
If somebody loves you that's flattering
If you love somebody and they love you back
That's SPECIAL
Love doesn't just come and go as we please, if she loved you, then believe me she still does.