Does she really like me as much as she says?

Ryan33 · May 24, 2007, 08:42 AM

I've been dating this girl for about 6 weeks now , I like her a lot but it just seams like she doesn't like me has much as she says, like the only time she says that is when I say it to her... she doesn't show any thing to me like I'm the one that always calls her and asks her if she wants to do something, she never does that... I just feel like she a wast of my time but I don't want to break up with her what should I do?. am I just crazy ?

Lowtax4eva · May 24, 2007, 08:44 AM

I would stop trying so much, she might just like the company every now and then and may not actually like you as much as you like her.

Let her innitiate the next contact and if she doesn't call you ever then you have your answer anc can move on.

fix-what-you-broke · May 24, 2007, 08:47 AM

She may be very shy and scared to make the first move, have fun with her, make her genuinly smile,she will come out of her shell

talaniman · May 24, 2007, 08:54 AM

A guy that needs to be told all the time how his female feels is insecure. Go by her actions. The only thing you should be worried about is, that she has a good time, and gives you sweet smiles. The rest takes care of itself.

Ryan33 · May 24, 2007, 09:12 AM

Originally Posted by Chelle17

I WOULD STOP TALKING TO HER, HONESTLY. IF SHE DOESNT TRY TO HELP U OUT IN THE RELATIONSHIP, THEN YOU NEED SOMEONE ELSE THAT WILL.

Thanks that's what I was thinking of doing I wasn't to sure if it was the right thing to do but ill give it a try... thanx again

InTheArmsOfGod · May 25, 2007, 08:17 AM

Are you really dating this girl? I mean from the looks of it, she's just holding on to you until the next man comes and then she's ready to come up with some lame excuse as to why it's not working out between the both of you.

I'd give it a few more weeks and then finally confront her on her feelings. Tell her that you don't feel she's giving 100% and that you don't believe it's working out. See what she says after that and you should have a better of idea of whether she's the girl for you. 6 weeks is nothing though, so it may be a case of giving the relationship some more time before she comes around. Start ignoring her too. You can't always be the one giving her the attention.

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