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poeticlyspeaking01 · May 23, 2007, 05:53 PM

My ex boyfriend has a newg girlfriend and he's cheating on her with me. But he tells her one thing and tells me another. We had the opportunity to chat and I told her wants been going on and she expressed the same to me. It turns out he's a lieing cheatin dog. He told her we had sex one time and it was a long time agao but it was actually for 7 months. She believes it but she wants to ctatch him I the act. But the thing is he's not talkinto me at this point because I told her. Now he's the kind of person you give 2 weeks and he'll be back trying to do the same thing, but we can't wait that long. How will I get him to talk to me again and try to mess with me as soon as posible?

fix-what-you-broke · May 23, 2007, 06:36 PM

Its not important that you play games with him, be thankful that you found out, some women never do, leave it at that, leave him to get on with it and get on with your life.

JoeCanada76 · May 23, 2007, 06:40 PM

Your willing to be a sleaze to catch a sleaze. That is real likable in a gal. I am being sarcastic. Playing these games is just going to hurt you more. Why do that to yourself. Eighter she believes it or not. Do not screw around just to make her happy. Enough with the games. It will get you both screwed. Both of you should agree this guy is not worth it and get rid of him. Instead of keeping him around, for what, for her. Screw that. Be smarter then her and stay away from them both.

Joe

CaptainRich · May 23, 2007, 06:51 PM

If he's fooling around with you to get at or to her, or if he's fooling around with her to get at you or to you, you are all going to have a problem with reality. Good luck if any of you continue. And it doesn't sound like you're really ex- anything!

shygrneyzs · May 23, 2007, 07:14 PM

There is no way I would play that game. There is no reason for you to play that game either. What happens if you and this other girl catch him "in the act"? He is going to be indignant, outraged, feel like he was set up (entrapment), and start defending himself AND calling both you and this other girl some pretty nasty names. He'll leave and hook up with someone else. OR come back to both of you later on and see which one forgives him. You want to know something? You probably will both forgive him and the story will go on. Kind of sick.

You and this other girl need to come to grips with the reality of this guy's cheating behavior. He is never going to stop cheating on any woman! Just think of this. Each time you have sex with him, you increase your risk of getting and STD or HIV/AIDS, pregnant, etc. He carries with him all the previous women he slept with. How many do you think that this? How crowded can your bed get before there is no room for you?

Be smart and ditch his lying a**. You can do better than him. Show respect for yourself by getting past this guy. Don't you deserve better?

Don't worry about him getting "his", the act of revenge on him. It will come to him in short enough time. One day he will play on some woman who plays on him and her guy will find him. Poetic justice.

Take care of yourself here and don't mess with this guy anymore.

CaptainRich · May 23, 2007, 07:31 PM

There is no way
There is no way...

CaptainRich · May 23, 2007, 07:54 PM

There is no way I...
Sugareyes is as correct as she can get..
Don't compromise yoursef. This is once in lifetime to make a life choice like this. Please take the time to make it right. Make it right and those in a position will respect you. Those who don't, should run along and play

LuvMyMaltipoo · May 23, 2007, 08:03 PM

Everyone else is right. It seems to me like your trying to prove something to her... DON'T. He knows what he's done so there's nothing else you should have to say to him. If this other gal can't believe what you're telling her without some proof, then she will learn the hard way. You should run and never look back... he doesn't deserve anymore of your time!