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bobic · May 20, 2007, 03:55 AM

Hay guys been on before when my ex broke up with me!
Well the situation now is that I have found a new girl who is a lot of fun and I really like her but this morning my ex rang who I still love obviously and wants to get back with me saying she doesn't want anyone else and will do anything . I don't know if I want her back as I really like this new girl but the new girl is going away in sept wheni go to uni too but my ex will be there always if you know what I mean so it seems to me ethier have fun this summer with the new one of get the old one back and maybe have fun for a long long time \?? What would you guys do??

Depressed when I had no girl confused when there's two :(

JoeCanada76 · May 20, 2007, 04:13 AM

Very simple, an ex is an ex for a reason.

Stay with the girl your with now.

Might not be perfect but nothing is perfect.

If you think your ex will be around for a long time your just fooling yourself.

There will always be a maybe but remember this person your with now, could be fun.

No need to be confused. Another thing I would like to mention if you found this new girl just because you do not like to be lonely then if you sought her out for the wrong reasons it will not work out with her either.

The decisions all up to you.

Either stay with the one your with now, no guarantees.

Or go back to your ex, no guarantees.

Or cut your losses with both of them and actually learn how to be happy with yourself when not with anybody then this will help you be happier and learn how to deal with relationships better in the future.

Does not the last option sound good to you, this is all if your into actually learning about yourself before being with people for the wrong reasons.

Joe

Jiser · May 20, 2007, 04:54 AM

Don't go back! Go forward.

talaniman · May 20, 2007, 06:32 AM

She heard you have moved on with someone else, and now she will do anything? Even kick you to the curb again?? Don't fall for that. She booted you, and made you an ex for a reason, and it would be foolish to drop everything, and run back to her now. As for the new girl, be honest and have fun and be a good time. Go slow with no high expectations, and enjoy the summer. She is a breath of fresh air you needed to air out your life, so drop the confusion that's from the ex. You've worked hard to get your life back, and no matter if this ends you will be much better for it, since its friends, and fun, not your whole heart in her hands. Don't look back.

mckenzie134 · May 20, 2007, 07:17 AM

I thought you already got back with your ex remember she didn't want to lose you like 6 weeks ago what happened did you get back with her??

talaniman · May 20, 2007, 07:27 AM

Originally Posted by bobic, Apr, 1st.
UPDATE !
well guys i gave no contact ! cept we had to spend the weekend together as it was pre planned ! anyway i said at the end of the weekend that i didnt want to speak or see her again for a long time i left and went to my m8s house.
got home where my phone was chargin had 10 missed calls 3 msgs ! anyway one read please ring me we cqan sort this out !
i rang her and she asked if i would come over and see her so i agreed !
i went round and she said i want you back i dont want to loose you im sorry !
so now we are back together what do you guys think about this bad gopod ? im happy and i asked her if she was gonna do this again and she promised she wouldnt !

Mac you have a good memory so I guess we all are wondering Whasss up!

Stunning07 · May 20, 2007, 12:05 PM

Your basically getttin advice from everyone just to be satisfied, but you will end up listening to your heart it happens all the time, so just listen to your heart you might regret it, but it seems like the other girl is there just for play don't hurt her, what goes around comes around good luck

bobic · May 20, 2007, 12:08 PM

Well I did get back with her but you guys where right and she obviously hadn't resolved her issues or being alone so I ended it but this new one is funand enjoy spending time with her
I love my ex but I can't be botherd with the pain of rejection again ! But I told my ex this morning that I wasn't ready to get back with her I said I'm not folling her around just I can't be arsed with the pain again??
What do you think??
And I'm not with this new one to get over the other just we have a lot in common known each other fopr a long time she's younger but I really like her :?

Stunning07 · May 20, 2007, 12:10 PM

I think you should not tell your ex anything of how you feel just be mysterious, let her know and let her think your still there because you prob are other than that, drop all your comunications w/ her unless she tries to communicate make your answers short be busy, and let her know your happy w/out her